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joyiilicous

38 / M / straight / Single

Santa Cruz, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am Crazy, Sexy, and Cool.

My Self-Summary

the guy before me is married, the guy after me is a stalker, and just by joining this site i have inadvertently associated myself with a sea of silicon valley nerds, 40-year-old virgins, beer-belly trailer trash, and guys wearing bright white socks with sandals. can i meet an extraordinary woman on here without becoming a member of such a high-status society?

this is why you are cool. you are happy, compassionate and reflexively kind. you can’t help being provocative and curious and original. you are open to the world, extremely bright, funny, and joy swims in the air around you. you can’t help that either. you’re a doer more than a watcher. a creator more than a consumer. you are an energetic woman who has dreams and passions. you hate excessive drama and game playing as much as i do. fit. slim, please. and you are strong, both in obvious, and secret, ways.

my mom likes to tell the story of driving my 4 year-old brother and i out to visit my aunt and cousins who lived in the mountains. we got a flat tire on a dirt road hours from the nearest town. my mom started to freak out and have a melt down so i stepped up (at 7-years-old) and helped her change the tire. it was so dark you couldn’t see your hand in front of your face and we had no flashlight so we had to do everything by feeling our way in the dark. this is when i discovered that i liked to help people, and that i had a knack for keeping my cool and taking charge in high-pressure situations.

fast forward 12 years to age 19. i was committed to leaving my mark on this world so i started a non-profit organization which grew into a global organization working to empower visionary leaders from 65 nations. fast forward several more years and i’m happy working in the business world, starting small companies, and mentoring other entrepreneurs to be more successful.

along the way i got curious about the world so i grabbed my backpack, took a year and traveled all over central and south america, europe, and india. there are many more countries i plan to visit. i like to explore foreign cities by day, poke in and out of little shops, try strange and scary new delicacies. then go back to the hotel, rest up, dress up then hit the town for fun and laughs - some salsa dancing if we’re in south america!

i believe you’re either growing or you’re stagnating, therefore i am always striving to better myself, my life, and the lives of those i care about. i’m one of those fortunate people who absolutely loves his work. i’m exicted about the new business I’m launching this year. however, i live for the weekends and i’m actually pretty chill. few things turn me on more than feeling the curves of the road under my motorcycle as i head into the mountains for a weekend getaway with someone special holding on tight. and few things give me more pleasure than to prepare my famous ultra-hot red thai curry and serve it up with a full-bodied marsanne for a few intimate friends.

my spiderman powers: certified master hypnotist, certified massage therapist, great jump shot, and an ability to make people laugh when things are tense. there are more too, but you’ll have to get to know me to find out what they are.

i love my life and want to share it. i want to walk hand in hand in paris in a light drizzle just as the shopkeepers open the shutters of their doors in the morning and the smell of baking bread pours into the streets. if you’re right for me, we will crack each other up every day. if you’re ready to live a life of passion on a consistently high level, contact me.