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34 F Boston, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I moved back to the US after ~2 years in Europe, based in was a rich experience on every level -- especially in being the outsider, seeing other cultures and my own through their lens, and finding home in any place. I'd do it again, but somewhere warmer;)

Like everyone here, I'd like to meet someone I resonate with. I've been pretty work-focused the past years and each new professional rung ain't got nothin on laughing till I'm crying, exploring or adventuring with a partner or sharing the time with someone who feels like home. I want that. I hate the saying, but I do think you know when the chemistry is there -- then you know for sure when you can navigate life together.

I like a pretty good balance of serious and play, to be healthy and stay active (distance running and yoga are my standard choices but I'll do most anything active -- bike, hike, snowboard, swim, etc). I enjoy traveling -- both for work and not.
Like-mindedness is important, but challenging my thinking is quite welcome -- heated arguments not so much. Most of all, I think it's important to have passion, compassion, a drive, personal compass, curiousity and respect for others -- oh, and laughter. My family regularly ends up laughing so hard we are all in tears...this, I love.
What I’m doing with my life
My background is in the sciences. After grad school I spent a few years at a non-profit that funded research and clinical work in cancer applications, and there my role quickly became program management and marketing...then more marketing. I ended up working for a global medical device company at one of their businesses in Helsinki in clinical marketing, and now in a broader marketing role with the same company here outside of Boston. I really enjoy my work -- the intersection of policy, science/clinical, health and wellness and business creates a lot of good challenges and I get to try to understand and tackle them with really bright people. It's sometimes too much work, but not ever boring.
I’m really good at
Connecting - sometimes drawing connections between things and people, often connecting with them. And laughing -- I really enjoy witty, punchy humor and being with people who have a light-hearted quality.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told my smile -- I'll take it
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - of all time - Where the Wild Things Are, the Alchemist, and any of Pema Chodran's books, Rumi, Rilke
recent favorite - Born to Run
Movies - most things
Music - lots -- things i can dance to, some old stuff like billy holiday, miles Davis and Ella Fitzgerald, some newer jazzy stuff like amos lee, neko case, hem, arcade fire, avett brothers, then there's jimmy eat world, dashboard confessional, old 97s, iron and wine, Norah jones...
And I like a bit of country/folk -- wailing Jenny's, Johnny Cash, infamous stringdusters, emmylou harris...and many others
The six things I could never do without
Salty sea air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What might be at the center of it all
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding over dinner and drinks with a friend -- often in (or in from) another city -- or decompressing from the week
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
We might align well, you have a penchant for witty banter and a love of good coffee and/or good wine to consume during said banter. You're open minded and enjoy living fully.