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jpes1

35 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Cruz, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:47pm
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it matters a lot
Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I tend towards quietness at first, but I like people who talk more than me. When I speak, I tend to prefer deep, honest, funny conversations. I don't spend much time talking about sports (though I enjoy watching an occasional game with friends.) I tend to avoid topics of conversation such as the weather, or anything I consider meaningless.
I want to try new things, meet new people. Life is too short for it to be boring.
What I’m doing with my life
Is to learning to enjoy it. Becoming known for a trade. Challenging my boundaries. Growing. And trying to figure out how to meet new people outside of a bar or my work.
I’m really good at
Appreciating people who are different from me. Interpreting a birth chart. Assisting people with their spiritual goals. Wine, I am one of the wine guys at work. Bagging groceries. Cooking for other people.
The first things people usually notice about me
Is my new facial hair. The hair on my head. The care I put into my appearance. That I look familiar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Funny, one of the things I am most passionate in this world about is books and language, and yet it is also one of the hardest things to say anything about.

Right now I am loving spoken poetry. Fantasy was probably my first love though. Followed by time focused on a non-fiction religious-spiritual-conspiratorial book phase. About 60% of these books were in some way related to UFOs or Buddhism. Then for a while I read mostly the classics like Hemingway, Kerouac, and Vonnegut, which trailed off into science fiction like Silverberg, Sturgeon, and Vonnegut. I have read $#!+ tons of almost everything and have no interest in listing any more names. Recently I have been more practical in my readings, focusing on self education.

Movies and TV: I like some shows, Dexter and Breaking Bad are two of the best, I generally only watch TV at other peoples houses or occasionally on DVD or Netflix. I didn't plug my tv in for four months after I moving into my current place. I have a lot of movies, and used to have more. I appreciate the art of film making and scripting. I will watch any movie once.

Music: Almost content to say I love music and leave it at that. Instead of listing a million random artists and genres, I will tell you some generalities: I hate restaurant mariachi bands. I love punk, classic rock, music with real poetry, real feelings. I hate Iron Maiden and U2.

Food: Really I can eat almost anything if nutrition is the aim. Once saw an episode of Bizarre Foods that took place in Thailand (where I lived a couple of years) and was left with the impression I could do the host's job better (or at least with a more stable stomach) than he could.

Needless to say Thai food is big with me, Asian food in general really, I've had a lot of it. Red wine, great beer, and almost any fine spirit. I like vegetarian food, dislike the meat industry. think people in this country eat too much protein, truly respect the vegan life path, and have no ethical problem with meat eating per se. But that said. I love fine food and drink from anywhere and would literally like to try every sort of ethnic cuisine before I die.
The six things I could never do without
My bed. A bathroom. My books. My truck(I hate the bus, prefer a bike). A sense of who I am, and my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. Everybody. Astrology. Enlightenment. My book.
On a typical Friday night I am
Bowling with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that I really think it is a good idea to securely and safely check me out while I am at work if you want. I work at TJs in down town Santa Cruz. Almost definitely won't recognize you.
Oh, and when I was young, before sex was an issue ALL my friends were girls.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You can or can't think of an excuse to do so, but for some reason you want to.

Or you want me to try an experimental recipe out on you. (guinea pig sign ups.)