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jph125

33 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 4:57pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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In my free time you may find me:
- preaching about what humans might learn from the study of bonobo primate behavior (make love not war)
- learning how to draw (there's a book and it tells you)
- workin' on my fitness (most often biking around the city but also occasionally known to be the only male and only person under 65 in the aqua boot camp class at my gym)
What I’m doing with my life
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I run my own consulting practice that caters to design-centric businesses so I work with artist / entrepreneur types most of my time. It's drama but it's awesome.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing (don't be jealous)

Mixing the finest cocktails with fresh herbs and berries (don't be even jealouser)

Making homemade ice cream (jealouserer and jealouserer?)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My iced out grill, whatchu think?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - Django Unchained (all Tarantino flicks really), The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Royal Tenenbaums, City of God, Amelie

Books - Breakfast of Champions, Villa Incognito, American Pastoral, Slaughterhouse Five, Go Tell It on the Mountain, Choke

Food - never tasted a cuisine I didn't like, Vietnamese, Korean and Venezuelan are what I'm eating most these days.

Music - Spotify is changing everything for me, what I'm listening to now: soul jazz like Jimmy McGriff, funky soul like Sly and the Family Stone, also Alt J, Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, Mark Ronson, Viceroy, Arcade Fire, and always 90s hip hop like Biggie, Outkast, Nas, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The occasional freak that challenges everything I ever believed in, the occasional experience I never thought I'd experience, the occasional yoga class... oh and protection from free radical damage
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Will I find my spirit animal or will my spirit animal find me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Becoming unstuck in time (like a bug untrapped in amber).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a sucker for self-help books - Do You!, by Russell Simmons, go read it, for real.
You should message me if
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You just have the sense that our pheromones would jive nicely.