Why am here and what it is am looking for and about me ....
I am interested in being your boyfriend and not just a friend or anything that leads to friends only aka friend zone (am sorry if I repeat this but not everyone can be on the same page and or think they are ready but I have found that is not always the case).
To clarify my head line , am interested in someone who ready to let someone into their life, who wants to have me be a part of their life....I am only interested in building an intimate friendship that will lead to a long term relationship (am willing to build a friendship along the lines of dating and getting to know you on many levels which include but are not limited to intimacy , if you’re not ready to let someone in to fill that spot, I mean really ready then I am not the guy for you ... in other words am not interested in things that lead to "friend zone" or just Friendship unless we have try dating first and agree together that we both want that....that is not why I join a dating site... Wise words to live by "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will leave in torment if you don't trust enough." by frank crane......
I know what I want and who I want, with that being said....this is who I am and what I am about....
Who am I? --> I'm Bat-Man. Wait, no,no,no that was a movie!
Hello my name is Justin, but everyone calls me jay am a single Jewish male age 34.
I would describe myself as goal-oriented and taking the right steps towards a stable career. I’m always looking forward to the future and finding the good and fun parts of it.
I recently made the decision to go back to school working on getting an associate degree (in Biology ) then going on to optometry school to become an optometrist(Eye Dr.)
(Please note that I already have a bachelor degree and this is my second time in school).
Right now I am taking organic chemistry and studying to get into optometry school as well as working part time.
Lately I've realized that having adventures with someone is much more thrilling than having them all alone. So if you can relate to any of the above, and if you share a few qualities with me, then contact me. Looking forward to hearing from you!
I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations.
I care about other people's feelings. I'm affectionate, have my romantic but original moments, appreciate having fun and being funny, I also have a tendency to talk and write too much.
Having some similar interests helps--some things I enjoy are fine dining, walking at the beach at night, going dancing, watching movies including action adventure, comedies, and drama, traveling, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together. My hobbies are wide in range, I do tend to be more of a homebody, but with that being said am looking to go out and do things with the right person, so I like to find someone who enjoys both aspects when dating. My taste in music is wide range anywhere from classical, to classic rock, rock, alt, jazz and blues and even county.
If you made it this far and have enjoyed what you read keep reading to find out more about me and what I am about.
This being a profile, I have to list a few of my qualities, so here goes:
I'm extremely confident but I know my shortcomings. I'm a very humble man. I know to admit when I'm wrong. I do not run from adversity, and rarely come into my own.
I understand that there's a time to give and be loving and understanding. I also believe in standing up for what I believe and not being walked on. I'm always there for my friends and loved ones.
I care what people think of me because I believe in being the best man I can be. I want people who come across me to think "hey what a cool guy".
I'm privileged to have a good group of friends who are very important to me and they come from all walks of life. I get passionately involved in my big interests in my life.
If you take the time to get to know me, you will see that I'm actually honest, wiser than I look, witty/humorous, respectful, faithful, and loyal and I can be very romantic too. Traits that I find are positive and that I can offer someone in a relationship include being Honest and straight forward, reliable, no games, no drama, no bs.
If you made it this far and have enjoyed what you read keep reading to find out more about me and what am about.
What I'm looking for...
You can make me smile even when you're not with me. You can be passionate and spontaneous. You can love deeply and be loved. You don't live in the past and expect the best of the future. You can smile even when soaked on a wet day. You are mostly bubbly and light but sometimes dark. You would never take me too seriously and could make me laugh in case I took you too seriously
Dating to me is very progressive, what I mean by that is the more dates we go on and the more comfortable we get with each other the better the dates will become in theory (that's not to say our first or send date will be bad by any means) The more I see someone invested their time into me the more I like to go out of way and make sure that person has an enjoyable time it's a win win and I like to think if someone enjoying them self’s they like to come back and get another dose of me :P with that being said.
I enjoy things such as ....
Love Las Vegas
anything that has to do with technology
If any of this peaks your interest please contact me and lets see if we can hot it off, prefer someone willing to talk on the phone or meet with in a reasonable amount of time.
I am looking to be introduced/meet online but rather quickly take it from an introduction phase to a getting to know one another in real life phase and have our interaction be more meaningful and on personal level then just e-mailing or im-ing one another..... Meaning have real one on one and concrete conversation over the phone, meeting in person can happen as time permits and when we are both comfortable but that should not get in the way of getting to know someone off line.
I am ok with texting short conversation, but the best way and the most personal way to get to know me and stand out is either face to face or over the phone
One who not willing to talk on the phone, leads me to believe that they are just looking for a pen pal and that not what am here for sorry.....
One rule I live by is you must not suffer from phone phobia, the best way to get to know me is thru the phone, am not here to date my computer, ims or my text messaging app, but not oppose to using them as an enhancement once we talked on the phone a few times to get to know each other, cause that is truly the best way you will learn more about me and who I am if you are truly interested then it will be worth it, I promise. It really is my one and only deal breaker.