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jpstyler

32 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:14am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I like to pretend I hate birds and then buy things with birds on them. I like the sun more than the fog. I love stories. I hide money and then forget where I put it. I always know what I want, even if I pretend that I don't. I like the unexpected and I dislike unexpected change. I love to love and I love being loved.

I sometimes look innocent and young, but I have a dirty mind. I like people who can push boundaries...or at least straddle them. I like to be crazy fun and impulsive and predictable.. I love super adventures. I can have fun doing anything or absolutely nothing.

I am looking for a magnanimous partner/lover who wants a relationship overflowing with laughter, learning, growth, and tons of sexy-time. And really good open communication. I want someone who's available, loving, and responsible. A man who always tries to be kind, thoughtful, considerate and respectful (the 4 qualities I find most important in another person).

I want a man who wants their next relationship to be a priority in their life. I want someone who's going to treat me like a Queen so I can treat them like a King.

PS. I typically date tall, handsome, fit men who can make me laugh...
What I’m doing with my life
I am a professional musician, sound healer, and event manager (among many other things). I live in a perfect little back-cottage on the Berk/Oak border where it's always sunny and warm. I dream of recording music for film, followed by traveling the world again and then living in Italy for a while.

Update: I am finally launching my sound healing and sound design consultation company this year!!

*Message me with your email address if you want to be informed of my upcoming PANArt Hang concerts*
I’m really good at
Men. Awkward moments. Eating dessert first. Buying multi-color knee-high socks. Conversing through song. Sitting in the sun. Whiskey drinking. The splits. Roller-coastering. Mini-golfing. Square-dancing. High-kicks. Singing opera. Meditating and healing with sound. Ballroom dancing. Yoga-ing. Finding hidden waterfalls. Climbing up the side of waterfalls. Finding my way back. Organizing people and things. Communicating with kindness and clarity. Taking responsibility for my own emotions. Problem solving: You gotta problem, yo, i'll solve it..
The first things people usually notice about me
My favorite CS (couchsurfing) reference:
"I stayed at her Walden Pond cottage... best cottage ever. She lives next to an AMAZING cafe, and if you have the privilege of sleeping in her bed as I did (don't read too much into that kids) you will find yourself as comfortable as you may have ever been in your life. She has a "dream" car and 10,000 stories that will make you feel like you have never lived a day in your life. She smells like vanilla oakwood slightly toasted and has the voice of a forbidden angel after a 16 hour Starwars marathon. Beautiful, inspiring, sarcastic, spastic and realistic, JP was the greatest thing that ever happened to me ever in my life."
The six things I could never do without
My body
My sanity
Imagination
Love.
Contradictions
Sunshine.
Puns.
Oh wait, that's 7.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Space unicorns.
Teleportation.
The truth.
The future.
The present.
The magic of a moment.
The laws of the universe.
Why I only experience instant manifestation when I'm looking for a parking spot.
Potential As Seen On TV commercials for the Vagjackuuum.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My middle name is technically P. That's right folks, Pee dot.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you want to tell me a story.
you want to say yes yes yes to me.
you are musician, artist, or writer.
you can make me laugh until I cry.
you will always pick me up and twirl me around in circles.
you love being silly on tuesdays, spontaneous adventure day.
you don't care what anyone else thinks of you.
you always put in the effort to show you care.
you want to take me waltzing.
you are actually from the 1700's.
*you want to attend one of my concerts - send me your email addy*.