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40 Arlington, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would describe myself as having a personality with Clint Eastwood-ish overtones but with far more intellectual curiosity (than his on-screen personas).

I have a laid back style from growing up on a farm but am driven to re-balance justice from the manipulation that is our capitalist model.

I use that drive in my teaching of four-year olds. I hope for a relationship where we can support each other in our passions while enjoying our home as a peaceful reprieve from it all.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching, volunteer firefighting, working on my Masters, or relaxing on the Bay or on my camping land.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't understand the utility of this question.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm genuine. I am what I show you. The challenge, I have found, is for us to see what people are actually showing us rather than what we want to see.

Just tested out as an INTP which seems accurate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: Fidel Castro - My Life (Biographies/non-fiction)
Movies: Most any well made documentary,
Shows: Some PBS but not much TV.
Music: Alt-J, select Hip-Hop/R&B/Soul, Robert Cray(blues)/Jonathan Richman/Jazz fusion
Food: If Andrew Zimmern will eat it, I'll try it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If I ever lose it all, I'll let you know -
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is best.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy hour, heading to the fire station for a night shift, or heading out of town on a weekend exploration of somewhere new or to camp or hang out on the boat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Can't we just delete this section?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know yourself, YOU complete you, you don't need to raise pets or children in your home to feel that your life was worth while or to conform.