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jrd162005

33 / M / Straight / Single

Palo Alto, California

His Details

Last Online
Feb 5
Ethnicity
White
Height
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I pride myself on being a bit random (but not in a crazy, attention-seeking, or schizophrenic way). Being active is a big part of my life - anything that will get me outside to enjoy the sun will usually put a smile on my face. I try to live a healthy lifestyle, and tend to gravitate toward friends with a similar outlook. I'm originally from the northeast (PA) and have absolutely loved living in San Diego - though I do miss a nasty thunderstorm every now and then, and the changing of leaves.

I love the sport of triathlon and the daily exercise it demands - and no, I don't shave my legs. I tutor high school and college students - I love to teach. And I love to learn - about anything and everything (within reason). I'm strong-willed and can be pretty opinionated without being judgmental. That said, I can also be judgmental - don't judge me for it.

I know I want great chemistry and a deep connection. I want passion in love & intimacy, support, trust, vulnerability, respect, and little bit of easy-going in the daily minutia. I'm looking for someone who is honest, authentic, open-minded, passionate, giving, independent, and leads a healthy/active lifestyle. Someone who can laugh at herself, admits her own faults & shortcomings and makes a contribution despite them. Someone who can be my strongest advocate and biggest supporter; someone who can offer encouragement, constructive criticism, and can strong-arm me when called for.

I am compassionate, confident, and generous

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What I’m doing with my life
Finishing up a post-doc and about to start a *real* job - hallelujah! I'll be moving to SF in the near future and am ridiculously excited about it. More on this to come ;)

I know what I'm passionate about and can't wait to use my skills to make a real difference in the way we consume, conserve and produce energy. I wouldn't say I'm a tree-hugger, more of a concerned, compassionate, realist.

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I’m really good at
I love learning, love to teach and am pretty intuitive when it comes to understanding people

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The first things people usually notice about me
I can be quiet at times and have a lot to say at other times. Physically, I get the eyes/eyelashes thing a bunch.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Take Me With You, Snow Falling on Ceders, Omnivore's Dilemma, Harry Potter, Born To Run, The Big Short, Long Fuse Big Bang.

Music: Radiohead, Kings of Leon, Logh, Sigur Ros, Wilco, U2, Zeppelin, Roots, Metric, MGMT, My Morning Jacket, Wilco, Dave Matthews, Doves, Tool, and on and on and much broader than this list.

Food: yes please - sushi, Thai, Indian, Mexican, pretty much anything. I also love really good vegan food - oh Native Foods, when will you open a place in SD?

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
any of the following applies:

you have an interest in the world outside your world.
you can be goofy, serious, fun, athletic, and outdoorsy
you're capable of scintillating conversation
you volunteer for a local organization you're passionate about
you're spontaneous

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