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jseagull78

58 San Carlos, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–63
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Yes, I too wish I looked more like George Clooney. However, I am warm, kind, humorous, reflective, and passionate. I am devoted to my friends and family. Not a "player" (it goes against my sense of integrity).

I am affectionate (I don't just mean sexual) and enjoy the emotion, closeness, and warmth of a meaningful relationship. That said, I am not one to demand all your time and attention; that's just plain needy.

Frankly, I am a happy person. I enjoyed a successful career but moved on last year to care for my mom. She is a real kick and we are good friends. I like doing things to make her life happy and easier. As I say to her, "It is my pleasure" to help her. I guess one of the upsides is that you will find me just as devoted to you as I am to her. It is my nature.

I am trying to figure out my next project but will find someway to be "productive." Can't see just sitting around when I have spare time. There is a certain intensity about me. I like to focus on making things happen. I am curious and love mental stimulation.

I would like more out of my personal life. I would like to meet someone special because I think life would be even more fun and profoundly meaningful together.

My demeanor is happy and optimistic and I possess a quick and creative wit. I feel that doing the right thing is demonstrated everyday by how we treat others (friends and strangers). I am sentimental; I think part of it is that it makes me feel connected to family and friends.

I enjoy being stimulated by the arts and ideas that challenge my perspective on life. I am athletic and enjoy visiting museums and art galleries, hiking (not so much into camping unless you enjoy carrying the backpack), kayaking, biking, and just getting out on a road trip adventure in any direction.

I enjoy traveling (have spent some time in China, Tibet, Thailand, Australia, Japan, but need to see more of Europe - just want to find someone to go with!) and learning about other people, cultures and perspectives. I enjoy cooking and am having fun improving my techniques (although I admit to an occasional flop).

You (still there?) are happy, kind and compassionate. You enjoy being physically active (but, you needn't be an Olympic athlete). An explorer of sorts. You like to think and learn. You enjoy people. You enjoy a healthy lifestyle, but are not obsessive about it. You have a spiritual sense. You are sexy and flirtatious at times. You appreciate that I am a gentleman and allow me to do things for you at times (even though you are very capable and could do them yourself). Above all, you are kind.

I am intellectually curious, love learning and thinking through problems. In my late 30s I retired from my first career, sold my house, and went to get my MS in Public Policy & Finance at Carnegie Mellon University. It isn't uncommon for me to pull out a book on economics or statistics to review or learn a new concept. (I don't expect you to be the same. :) To each their own.)
What I’m doing with my life
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Using my mind and looking for you (sometimes I feel I am losing my mind looking for you, but I keep on truckin'. It will happen; I haven't lost faith.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being humble?
The first things people usually notice about me
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When I am walking my dog, they notice the dog. I have to admit, she is very cute.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pema Chodron's "When Things Fall Apart" (Buddhist philosophy), Foreign Affairs magazine. Just finished reading 1776. Finished I.B. Singer's The Slave (my eyes and cheeks are still moist). Interested in how people's limitations influence their choices and how characters struggle with life while maintaining cherished values. Some favorite books: War & Peace, Moby Dick, anything by Charles Dickens. Currently starting Homer's The Iliad. I will likely ready The Odyssey again, when I am done. (Yes, I should have read The Iliad first.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, books, intellectual challenges, reflection... most of the material stuff I may enjoy but can replace.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get across complex ideas in a simple manner. Seems like a problem that is universal. Maybe it is like solving global hunger.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yoga, reading. But I would rather be having dinner with you.
You should message me if
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You are intrigued, aren't sure, questions. Let's communicate.