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jsf1970

39 / M / straight / Single

Clark, New Jersey

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Fluently)

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I am affeconate, outgoing, and family man.

My Self-Summary

I'm 39, have a BS in Mechanical Engineering, am a national sales & marketing manager for an electronic component distributor, own a beautiful home in the suburbs of NJ. I am divorced and have a beautiful 5 year old daughter who consumes all of my time, which i got to admit, I love it! I love to cook and am not just saying that, but I also like to get take out or eat out at different places. I definitely have my priorities down but would like to find someone to share my same interests with and to hopefully get into a serious relationship.

I look forward to your Woo's and Hi's!

What I’m doing with my life

My life right now, besides paying the bills and working hard, i spend my leisure time with my daughter.

The question really should be, what would you really like to see yourself doing?

If I was dating someone, I would like to go places on the weekend, outdoor events, sports, beach, parks, museums, plays, movies, or on a cold day like today, maybe just snuggle.

I’m really good at

This is in no particular order.

1) Cooking
2) Fixing things
3) Massages
4) FoosBall
5) Computers

The first things people usually notice about me

Women say that I look like Carlos from Desperate Housewives. Never saw the show, but I believe its a compliment.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Work in progress....

The six things I could never do without

Work in progress....

I spend a lot of time thinking about

1) How to be the most excellent Dad to my daughter
2) Future Career Move
3) Thinking that it would be very nice to find someone new in my life
4) What to cook for dinner?? (Usually on the drive home)
5) How can I convince my daughter to eat veggies? This is tough, I will take suggestions from anyone on this!!
6) How to get my salespeople to sell more product without them making excuses
7)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I really don't like sharing anything too personal on this site.

What I can say is that I never smoked or did drugs of any nature. I was offered several times but did not fall victim to it like many of my past friends.

I might pop a cigar on a special occasion if someone offers but I can count on one hand the number of times that happened.

You should message me if

Send me a message if you are between 25-38 and have a relatively high match %.
You must like kids as this is important to me.