09/2014 UPDATE: Right now, I'm not looking for any kind of a relationship past friendship. This account is being left active for two reasons... 1 - in case my wonderful husband starts talking to someone and wants to show her my profile... 2 - in case someone out there wants a friend to talk to that has maybe dealt with some of the same shit they've been through... To that effect, I am leaving the rest of my profile as it stands, because it reflects who I am and what I want out of life. Peace.
Anyone wanting to just chat and maybe get a new friend is welcome to hit me up. :) ...I am not on here primarily to find a boyfriend. In fact, I consider the chances of actually finding the right guy for my situation to be very small, if at all. Most of what I'm doing here is looking for new people to talk to and chat with and get to know. If I bullshit with you or flirt with you, do not consider that something to yell at me about if you "just want to be friends". I am like that with all of my friends, it's just part of who I am. It's probably not personal. So, if you are interested in a possible relationship (eventually), please tell me. Otherwise, I will presume we are strictly working toward a new friendship...
My wonderful husband and I have been happily married for three years, and are currently looking into the polyamorous concept. We are looking for an exclusive long-term relationship. This is not to be confused with polygamy, flings, swingers, or other arrangements that are mostly about sex. We would like to find someone with similar interests who can become a close friend, then have things progress from there. This would be a non-discreet relationship so everyone involved would know exactly what's going on and we would all hang out together just for fun as well. Ideally, we would like to find someone open to everyone living together eventually. If you're interested hit me up and we can chat. My husband is straight, so any interested guys must be as well.
Polyamory is not about sex. It is about the belief that it is possible to love more than one person, and the desire to do so. It is the search for an emotional connection and bond that keeps people together even if times are bad. It is about my husband and I finding another person to welcome into our family and share our lives with. Someone who can become a supportive partner in the relationship with me and my husband. Ths is not a separate relationship, but an expansion on it instead. It is not about sex. It is not about some problem between us; there is none. My husband's id is mattgunguy, if you want to look him up.