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30 • Middletown, CT • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Dec 3, 2009
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Banking / Finance
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I am a gay. I am neither butch nor femme, but I am really freaking awkward.
I think religion is kinda silly.
While I enjoy LOLspeak, I can't take people seriously when they type poorly. We're all entitled to typos. Just don't type like a 12-year-old or an idiot frat boy.
I'm a proud feminist, and I do not respect people who say things like, "I'm not a feminist, but..." If you enjoy women having rights, be a fucking feminist.
I'm pretty big on the monogamy thing. Or maybe, all things considered, "monamory"? I dunno. But I don't do polyamory or open relationships or all that. I'll try not to judge others who do (even though I will be admittedly skeptical) but my own emotional and mental wellbeing dictates that I refrain.
If you don't understand things like irony or sarcasm, then we probably won't be talking for too long.
I'm not even remotely as cocky as the above may make me sound. Online, it's easy to be full of false bravado. :P I'm really a shy nerd. No, really.
Oh, also? I'm jtheawesome, for any Quickmatchers out there.
I am awkward, awesome, and leet
Also - bringing limitless joy into the lives of others by the sheer virtue of my existence. :D
A few other books that were very memorable for me are Fingersmith by Sarah Waters, Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett, and the His Dark Materials trilogy by Phillip Pullman.
Visual Media! I just recently got into this whole "Netflix" craze that the kids are into these days. I just watched (and loved) House of Yes, and next on my list is American Psycho. I like dark humor!
Speaking of dark humor, I've recently gotten into the former Showtime gem Dead Like Me. Love it. I might just have to marry Ellen Muth someday. Some other TV shows I enjoy include The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, Planet Earth, MythBusters, and Dog Whisperer. I used to loooove Daria back when it was on MTV. I used to watch Xena: Warrior Princess religiously, for the exact reason one might expect.
I also enjoy watching video games. Not even necessarily playing them. And, um. I do like searching for clips of lesbian movie scenes on YouTube sometimes. :P
Music! I enjoy a lot of the alternative rock from the mid- to late-90s. I haven't really kept up with the current music scene so much, in part because my radio is a piece of shit. I tend to enjoy individual songs more than specific bands, but the one band I do follow persistently is Cake. Does anyone even know who they are?
Foods! Anything with garlic. Mmmmmmmm, garlic.
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