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45 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33-49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:39am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
well hellO there
thanks for clicking me !

Transition. seems to be the headline. From SF to LA
back to the bay. Now it's Oaklandia to stay.
Giving OK C a new tuck and lift ~
Looking for connection and adventure and play.

I've done so much and come a long way, feels like im starting my 3rd lifetime this go round. Excited to see what fantastic~ness awaits me around corners i cant even see yet.

I'm an intense type, I think in a good way. i have gravitas and impact and sway. Piercing blue eyes and a kind heart. I have learned so much in the empathy school that i find how i look at people and life and myself has changed. Lets say for the better. I care. i love. I'm sexy and discerning and hilarious when you get in. Im insightful and nuerotic. Balanced mixture of brooding and fantastic light. Im a teacher and an empath. A cook and an editor, a creative person in mind and body. I've suceeded in fluffing off the mainstream path for an adventure that i can only surrender to and smile at. As my quest to know thyself, in this case myself, has lead me on some pretty wide turns and unexpected places. Pearls left in all the difficult parts. For these i am humbled and grateful.

The difficult parts always reveal gifts. Lets call them silver linings as my relationship to silver is a strong one. My work now as a healer, coach, empath revealing itself. Birthing a new healing modality before my very hands and eyes. Helping women reclaim their power through their sex. Devotion to the feminine in us all. I am a strong believer in the downward path. As above so below. If we do the work to go down and turn on the lights in the basement. We can then go higher then we thought imaginable.

I want connection and love and sex and laughter and intimacy. . And it's not a course to be traversed lightly although sometimes i wish I could. I'm double taurus with a virgo moon. Enneagram 4 wing3. In case you like that kind of stuff. I engage with things spiritual. without all the window dressing. The latest path being what they call 'the medicine'. What a wild intense revealing trip it's been.

I would describe myself as fit .. nearing 4 years a regular yoga practice. I look in the mirror sometimes and i like my body. Lean and chisled and strong. I've somehow become sculpted by my practice and it feels good to see the payoff.

I'm drawn to beauty in it's many unexpected forms as what i would define as beauty has evolved. I love being invited and usually add something special to a room.

Ok. It's either go on for weeks or just say, You found quality and depth here. Don't hesitate to reach out and say HEY.

What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying walking on the edge.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a specialist. And i must say I'm good at so many things. I have great hands. I cook. I can see you. And will tell you the secrets i see. I'm an editor, and brand specialist.. A coach an actor and a good friend. I surprise with my insanity and humor. Delight with my depth an charm.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My piercing blue eyes. A certain stealth, intensity style and charm.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my dad
health and wellness
how to navigate the asymmetry of it all
masculine and feminine dynamics
how to touch the beauty i can only feel sometimes
waking up
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
honestly, fridays or monday feel the same to me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have so much desire in me. And sometimes it's slow to reveal..
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel a pull in what ever part of your body is pulling you.
You can go deep and laugh hard.
You want connection and are willing to be fluid in relationship landscape.