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kassarin

27 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:10pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I just moved to San Diego from NYC last week to join my new corporate overlords. I don't know anyone here, so I'm looking for friends rather than dates. Moving on:

I'm a novelty seeker, a happy cynic, and a bit of a workaholic.

Breaking out into impromptu dance parties is a big part of my life. So is reading; I do a lot of it at home and on the train. But however hellbent I am on efficiency, reading and dancing simultaneously continues to be a challenge.

It's hard for me to turn down any competitive activities except for bowling and croquet because I'm bad at them. Fuck rolling balls.

I have an off-color sense of humor and am terrible at censoring myself, but I *am* always overdressed, which in conjunction with my personality and interests serves only to confuse people.

There's nothing I love more than long, tangential conversations and nerding out about all sorts of stuff including psychology, science, technology, relationships, and what the future may hold. Lately I've been really into life extension and age reversal (so if we hit it off you might be stuck with me for 500 years, hope that's cool).

I don't fit into any one particular scene -- I'm more of a chameleon. I'm equally comfortable at trailer parks, industry events, and snooty Hamptons yachting trips.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've spent my entire career in tech startups -- both my own and others'. However, I'd been feeling disillusioned with the startup scene for years and finally decided to sell out and become a corporate stiff. I'm still in tech, but primarily hardware instead of software and finally with a great excuse to be constantly overdressed.

I'm pretty ambitious and am usually juggling a gajillion side projects outside of my primary work.

Outside of that, I try to find time to write (essays, journal, passive-aggressive notes to myself since I no longer have roommates) and I teach a class one evening a week for n00b entrepreneurs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Definitely the leprosy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not a food or drink snob. I don't cook. My wine knowledge is just refined enough that I can occasionally tell the difference between white and red.

Books: Mainly psychology, pop science, and fiction. American Gods, Good Omens, Ender's Game/Ender's Shadow, The Brain That Changes Itself, Middlesex, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, World War Z, A Wrinkle in Time, Blood Meridian, Blindness, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, Play It as It Lays, The Scarlet Letter, The Prince, Cloud Atlas, The Book of Lost Things, The House of the Seven Gables, East of Eden, The Hunger Games, The Drunkard's Walk, The Stranger, Moonwalking with Einstein, Thinking Fast and Slow

Other stuff I like: XKCD, Radiolab, The Atlantic, This American Life, Pixar movies, Quora, James Altucher's blog, Miyazaki movies, catchy top 40s songs, and admittedly Game of Thrones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Do six pairs of shoes count, or would that be twelve things?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(why emoticons look so shitty within parentheses :()
You should message me if
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***UPDATE: Since I just moved here, my main priority right now is making friends rather than dating.***

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You're a geek of some sort, whether or not it's part of your day job.

You enjoy getting down on a dance floor or taking impromptu road trips. Actually, you should really just enjoy both.

You don't mind being silly in public -- or in private, for that matter. I need someone as shameless, playful, and high-energy as I am.

You're a freethinker. You like to talk about the things most people take for granted and you challenge the status quo when you see fit.

You're creative in relationships. I love surprises and letters and funny handmade gifts and things of the sort -- both giving and receiving.

You know how to have fun without always being fucked up on something or another. Sure, I'll have a few drinks here and there, but I can also go without and still have a great night.

Ideally you will also agree that spending a weekend building a project together, in a two-person book club, swinging from chandeliers, or getting muddy on ATVs can all be deeply romantic activities.

You want a partner with whom you can build empires and move mountains. Maybe even literally. Like Machu Picchu could look nice on Staten Island.

Superficial stuff: Not attracted to beards. Bonus points for good hairlines.