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27 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:28pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a novelty seeker, a happy cynic, and a bit of a workaholic.

Breaking out into impromptu dance parties is a big part of my life. So is reading; I do a lot of it at home and on the subway. But however hellbent I am on efficiency, reading and dancing simultaneously continues to be a challenge.

It's hard for me to turn down any competitive activities except for bowling and croquet because I'm bad at them. Fuck rolling balls.

I have an off-color sense of humor and am terrible at censoring myself, but I *am* always overdressed, which in conjunction with my personality and interests serves only to confuse people.

There's nothing I love more than long, tangential conversations and nerding out about all sorts of stuff including psychology, science, technology, social interactions, and what the future may hold. Lately I've been really into life extension and age reversal (so if we hit it off you might be stuck with me for 500 years, hope that's cool).

I'm a high-energy person, which means I speak fast and gesticulate wildly. I'm also much more warm and friendly than I likely come off in this profile.

I don't fit into any one particular scene -- I'm more of a chameleon. I'm equally comfortable at trailer parks, industry events, scummy karaoke bars, and snooty Hamptons yachting trips. That said, you definitely won't find me at spiritual retreats or football games anytime soon.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved to San Diego from NYC last month to join my new corporate overlords.

I've spent my entire career in tech startups -- both my own and others' -- but got so disillusioned with the startup scene that I decided to sell out and work for the man. I'm still in tech, but primarily hardware instead of software and finally with a great excuse to be constantly overdressed. I'm leading a team at a local wireless co and having a blast despite not having a life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Definitely the leprosy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not a food or drink snob. My wine knowledge is just refined enough that I can occasionally tell the difference between white and red.

Books: Mainly psychology, pop science, and fiction. American Gods, Good Omens, Ender's Game/Ender's Shadow, The Brain That Changes Itself, Middlesex, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, World War Z, A Wrinkle in Time, Blood Meridian, Blindness, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, Play It as It Lays, The Scarlet Letter, The Prince, Cloud Atlas, The Book of Lost Things, The House of the Seven Gables, East of Eden, The Hunger Games, The Drunkard's Walk, The Stranger, Moonwalking with Einstein, Thinking Fast and Slow, and obviously Harry Potter

Other stuff I like: XKCD, Radiolab, Taboo (the board game), The Atlantic, Pixar movies, Quora, James Altucher's blog, Miyazaki movies, catchy top 40s songs, and admittedly Game of Thrones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Do six pairs of shoes count, or would that be twelve things?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(why emoticons look so shitty within parentheses :()
You should message me if
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You're a geek of some sort, whether or not it's part of your day job.

You enjoy getting down on a dance floor or taking impromptu road trips. Actually, you should really just enjoy both.

You don't mind being silly in public -- or in private, for that matter. I need someone as shameless, playful, and high-energy as I am.

You're a skeptic and a freethinker. You like to talk about the things most people take for granted and you challenge the status quo when you see fit.

You're creative in relationships. I love surprises and letters and funny handmade gifts and things of the sort -- both giving and receiving.

You know how to have fun without always being fucked up on something or another. Sure, I'll have a few drinks here and there, but I can also go without and still have a great night.

Ideally you will also agree that spending a weekend building a project together, in a two-person book club, playing charades, hitting da club, or getting muddy on ATVs can all be deeply romantic activities.

You want a partner with whom you can build empires and move mountains. Maybe even literally. Like Machu Picchu could look nice on Staten Island.

Superficial stuff: Not attracted to beards. Bonus points for good hairlines.