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judgeholden_

26 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), French (Okay), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a novelty seeker, a happy cynic, and a bit of a workaholic.

Breaking out into impromptu dance parties is a big part of my life. So is reading; I do a lot of it at home and on the train. But however hellbent I am on efficiency, reading and dancing simultaneously continues to be a challenge.

It's hard for me to turn down any competitive activities except for bowling and croquet because I'm bad at them. Fuck rolling balls.

I have an off-color sense of humor and am terrible at censoring myself, but I *am* always overdressed, which in conjunction with my personality and interests serves only to confuse people.

I love long, tangential conversations and nerding out about all sorts of stuff including behavioral psychology, technology, transhumanism, and philosophy.

I'm a chameleon and I don't fit into any particular "scene." I'm equally comfortable at trailer parks, professional conferences, and snooty Hamptons trips.
What I’m doing with my life
I've spent my entire career in tech startups -- both my own and others'. I'm currently leading a product team at an educational software company. While I love my company, I've been feeling disillusioned with the startup scene lately to the point where I'm often embarrassed to be a part of it and tempted to move my ambitions elsewhere.

Outside of that, I try to find time to write (essays, snarky texts, passive-aggressive notes to myself since I no longer have roommates) and I teach a class one evening a week for new entrepreneurs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not a food or drink snob. I don't cook. My wine knowledge is just refined enough that I can sometimes tell the difference between white and red.

Books: Mainly psychology, pop science, and fiction. American Gods, Good Omens, Ender's Game/Ender's Shadow, The Brain That Changes Itself, Middlesex, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, World War Z, A Wrinkle in Time, Blood Meridian, Blindness, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, Play It as It Lays, The Scarlet Letter, The Prince, Cloud Atlas, The Book of Lost Things, The House of the Seven Gables, East of Eden, The Hunger Games, The Drunkard's Walk, The Stranger, Moonwalking with Einstein, Thinking Fast and Slow

Other stuff I like: XKCD, Radiolab, The Atlantic, This American Life, Pixar movies, Quora, James Altucher's blog, Miyazaki movies, catchy top 40s songs, and admittedly Game of Thrones.
The six things I could never do without
Do six pairs of shoes count, or would that be twelve things?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
(why emoticons look so shitty within parentheses :()
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like to travel so much as I'd like to like to travel. Is that even grammatically correct? Weekend jaunts are fun, but my favorite part of most long trips is coming back to NYC.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a geek of some sort, whether or not it's part of your day job.

You enjoy getting down on a dance floor or taking impromptu road trips. Actually, you should really just enjoy both.

You don't mind being silly in public -- or in private, for that matter. I need someone as shameless, playful, and high-energy as I am.

You're a critical thinker. You like to talk about the things most people take for granted and you challenge the status quo when you see fit.

You're creative in relationships. I love surprises and letters and funny handmade gifts and things of the sort -- both giving and receiving.

Ideally you will also agree that spending a weekend building a project together, in a two-person book club, in an igloo, or getting muddy on ATVs can all be deeply romantic activities.

Bonus points for good hairlines.

I'm also in the market for new platonic lady friends -- mine are all moving or becoming married homebodies -- so if I remind you of someone you know, send her my way.