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27 San Diego, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–32
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:49pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a novelty seeker, a cheerful cynic, and a bit of a workaholic.

Breaking out into impromptu dance parties is a big part of my life. So is reading; I do a lot of it at home and on the subway. But however hellbent I am on efficiency, reading and dancing simultaneously continues to be a challenge.

I have an off-color sense of humor and am terrible at censoring myself, but am also always overdressed, which in conjunction with my personality and interests serves only to confuse people.

It's hard for me to turn down any competitive activities except for bowling and croquet because I'm bad at them. Fuck rolling balls.

There's nothing I love more than intense, tangential conversations about all sorts of stuff: psychology, science, technology, society, our personal lives and relationships.

I don't fit into any one particular scene -- I'm more of a chameleon. I'm equally comfortable at cheesy nightclubs, industry events, camping trips, board game nights, and snooty Hamptons yacht excursions. That said, you definitely won't find me at yoga retreats or football games anytime soon.

I have a Facebook I check occasionally, but beyond that social media isn't really a part of my life. I'm the kind of person who goes on a trip and forgets to take even one photo.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved here from NYC six months ago to join my new corporate overlords. I'd spent my entire career in software startups -- both my own and others' -- but got so disillusioned with the scene that I decided to sell out and go work for the man. I'm leading an experimental new division at a public wireless co and having a blast despite not having a life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not a food or drink snob. My wine knowledge is just refined enough that I can occasionally tell the difference between white and red.

Books: Mainly psychology, pop science, and fiction. American Gods, Good Omens, Ender's Game/Ender's Shadow, The Brain That Changes Itself, Middlesex, The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, World War Z, A Wrinkle in Time, Blood Meridian, Blindness, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, The Prince, The Book of Lost Things, East of Eden, The Drunkard's Walk, Thinking Fast and Slow, and of course Harry Potter

Other things I like: Pixar movies, Radiolab, Taboo (the board game), The Atlantic, Quora, James Altucher's blog, Miyazaki movies, catchy top 40s songs, xkcd, Jeopardy but only if I can yell at the screen, and admittedly Game of Thrones.

That said, I do live in a bubble. Sometimes I'll raise my head only to find that four months have passed since I last saw a movie or a YouTube video or listened to any new music. It's not that I don't enjoy these things, it's just that they're not top priorities.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Do six pairs of shoes count, or would that be twelve things?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(why emoticons look so shitty within parentheses :()
You should message me if
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You enjoy getting down on a dance floor or taking impromptu road trips. Actually, you should really just enjoy both.

You're creative in relationships. I love surprises and wordplay and witty email banter and funny handmade gifts -- both giving and receiving.

You're a skeptic and a freethinker. You like to talk about the things most people take for granted and you challenge the status quo when you see fit.

You know how to have fun without always being fucked up on something or another. Sure, I'll have a few drinks here and there, but I can also go without and still have a great night.

It would be nice if you live in San Diego or NYC, but it isn't mandatory. My schedule is flexible enough that I'm not opposed to dating at a distance with the right person.

Ideally you will also agree that spending a weekend building a project together, in a two-person book club, swinging from chandeliers, playing charades, or getting muddy on ATVs can all be deeply romantic activities.

Superficial stuff: Not attracted to beards (though stubble is A-OK). Bonus points for good hairlines.