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judij

53 / F / straight / Single

Southport, United Kingdom

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am kind, caring, and sensitive.

My Self-Summary

I am now 53, divorced with two lovely adult children who are my best friends. I currently live alone but long for some company. I like eating out but am also a pretty good cook. I love driving and have an interest in cars - love 'different' cars not the boring family saloons. I love music and I sing in an all-female harmony choir. I listen to all sorts of music from classical to modern chart music - also love to dance - am always on the dance-floor at a 'do'.
I long to travel more as there are plenty of places around the world and also in the UK that I would love to visit - I especially love beaches and the sea.

What I’m doing with my life

Curretnly I work 32 hours over 4 days. I have my own house with a small mortgage. I am looking for someone to share my life now that my children have flown the nest - I would love to meet my soulmate - thought I have come close in the past but have been wrong but remain friends with exes so cant be too bad.

I’m really good at

Laughing at myself and with others - even when life seems unfair.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hmm not sure...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I dont get time to read much but I enjoy a trashy novel on holiday. Long to have time to read more especially autobiographys.
Films I have enjoyed vary from my all time fav 'Some Like it Hot' to 'Death Race'
Music includes all 'genres' from classical to chart - am going to see The Kings of Leon in June... grew up loving Motown - still do but have seen the Stones live which was fantastic. Go to the Philharmonic Hall to see calssical stuff when I get chance too.
Food? give me a stamp and I'll write what I dont like on the back and there'll still be room to spare... lol

The six things I could never do without

Love
Friendship
Laughter
Food
My car
Sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future I would like to share with a special person. Places we could go - times to stay in....

On a typical Friday night I am

Not typical - I love spontaneity - routine is boring. I may want to stay in,cook and open a bottle of wine, or go out to the cinnema, theatre, or just for a walk and maybe meet friends for a drink in the pub.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmmm - I miss the physical side of a loving relationship....

You should message me if

You think we may be compatable