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45 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:21am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m the girl who loves a daily dose of humor and fun: whether laughing with friends over drinks or being goofy with my 10 year old niece.

I’m the girl who adores adventures, local: biking, hiking around the bay…And far flung: exploring London’s nooks and crannies. Or NYC, Sydney, Laos, Espana…A mix of urban/culture and nature makes my heart sing.

I’m the girl thriving in career (Fortune 500 leadership coach & published kid lit author :-)— balanced with ‘type B’ chill. I’m a go-getter—and think it’s sexy being vulnerable with my guy.

I’m the girlfriend with goofy humor to make you laugh even when your stressful day pushed you the limit.

I’m the girlfriend up for a taqueria, fine foodie foray, or cooking you a delish gourmet dinner.

I’m the girlfriend who relishes pleasure—dance, massage, affection—seeking a passionate, sexy, vibrant partnership.

I’m the girlfriend who offers sweet lush embraces and kisses you in thanks when you open the car door for me.

I’m the girlfriend who enjoys frolicking and keeping it light. And who savors deeper convos with you, packing communication skills for a thriving, joyful relationship.

I’m happy in my life, seeking a compliment, not a clone. I’m ready for adventure and game to have fun, as long as you’re willing to try new things and see the world. More than anything, I’ll love coming home to you. It starts with just hello…
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm grateful to work part time as an independent consultant doing executive coaching and leadership training. You won't find me languishing in my opium den; I'm also a published children's book author. My awesome agent is eager to pitch my middle grade fantasy thriller novel to editors in NY. Writing a page-turning, entertaining story for kids Totally. Kicks. My. Butt.(!!) It's also deeply satisfying. Can't wait to see what happens. A constellation of friends and family make it all worthwhile.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
snuggling, sometimes in conjunction with taking naps, having a vision and making it reality for my life, procrastinating, (i know--rather schizophrenic), wordsmithing, making fitness a priority, being goofy with friends, being sensitive to what's going on for others, communication (helps that I teach it :-), giving my time to others, gardening, shaking up routines and getting out to try new things and explore new places in the bay, being a devoted auntie to my niece and nephew (here in the City).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
eyes. smile. young looking skin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A book worm can't name just one favorite! I've recently enjoyed: The Bone Clocks, The Outlander, the chortle-inducing Flavia de Luce series, A Path With Heart by Jack Kornfield, If the Buddha Dated, House of the Scorpion. I heart the public library and usually have several reads going at once.

I like exploring new-to-me music. If a friend said, "Hey, let's check out __" I would. Let's compare notes on concerts we've seen.

As for food, I enjoy most cuisines under the sun. Avocados deserve a national day of observance. I like a taqueria burrito as much as the next person, and have gourmet tendencies. I balance healthy eating and fitness with extravagent meals and treats here and there. Did I mention cupcakes? Life is too short not to indulge!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a great book, being active outside and in nature, the laughter and company of friends, stimulating conversation with others about the world and life, my yummy flannel bedding, a home that's peaceful and beautiful
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where I'd like to go on a next vacation-adventure, what I can do to help the environment, how thrilled I am that my agent loves my novel for kids, remembering to breathe and be mindful, what new gourmet recipe I'll try next on friends/dinner guests, how to keep living my best life each day...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes out with friends trying a new restaurant, attending a cultural event, checking out live music or otherwise out on the town. Anything different and new to me appeals.

Or, I'm at home recharging from the above, curled up with a movie and company or a book, cooking some yummy gourmet food and/or getting ready for a bike ride, hike, farmers market trip, other social outing or physical activity outside.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a college education, and LOVE reading at a 4th to 12th grade reading level. As a children's author, I gotta study the competition...I love it!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are enjoying the great cake of your life, too. A partner is just the icing, but tasty and desired (cliche, but says it well!).

Also if you'd also rather avoid long, email marathons v. being game to meet for a friendly beverage...You learn way more, faster. It's always fun to meet new people, no matter the outcome. :-)