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27 Sacramento, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I enjoy good food, interesting conversations, museums, singing, and other things. I strive to fill my life with interesting people and things. I'm currently in one happy relationship and would potentially like to have more.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in biotech in West Sac. I'm in a serious relationship with someone and we are both looking for friends and people to form polyamorous relationships with :)
I’m really good at
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My amateur pursuits include singing, drawing/painting, and cooking. I'm currently learning guitar/ukulele with some friends. I also love talking about a variety of miscellaneous topics including science, skepticism, politics, and "geek culture". If you know a lot about any of these topics, you can probably outsmart me pretty easily, but I'd love to listen to what you have to say.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh, my smile, and my small frame.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Mostly non-fiction, like The Selfish Gene and The Demon Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark. I haven't had a lot of energy to read for pleasure.

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Annie Hall, Contact, and Kill Bill. Movies that surprise me by breaking tired old tropes like "Moon" get extra points. I also love cheesy kung-fu movies and gross-out zombie flicks.

Shows: Game of Thrones, Firefly, Big Love, Battlestar Galactica, Good Eats and others. I don't have a lot of time to watch TV, but I've seen every single episode of the shows in that short list.

Music: Soulful, Bluesy, Jazzy or any music with challenging vocals. Favorites include Elton John, Janis Joplin, B.B. King, Beyonce and Etta James. Oh, and of course, show tunes.

Food: Indian food. I really enjoy trying new foods and cooking with interesting spices and ingredients. I'd prefer to be with someone who's similarly adventurous.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Friends
2) City living
3) Art
4) Culture (Kind of a cop-out, I know -- this includes good food, museums, and yogurt).
5) Guitar (I'm just a beginner, but I have a lot of fun with it!)
6) Wikipedia
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... the future, and how to get there with reasonable success.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... hanging out with friends, possibly making music, or having quiet conversations in small groups. I might go clubbing too, but it has to be with the right group and at the right place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I dress in drag sometimes for fun. It's one of my many hobbies. I fit in a women's small (4-6) so it's very easy to find clothing.
You should message me if
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... you have a passion you enjoy talking about. In case you missed it, you should be okay with dating someone who is already in a serious relationship!