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30 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:55am
5' 5" (1.66m)
Other and laughing about it
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back."

I like to write and read and do yoga and drink coffee and travel and see live music and do all that normal stuff people do when they're not at work.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- Thinking about humans and the ways in which we interact (we're on an anthropological safari anyway)
- Unconsciously (and even sometimes consciously) singing at work
- Maximizing my vitamin D
- Dancing in the dark (and often blissfully in the light, alone)
- Trying to improve interweb advertising (right person, right message, right time)
- Getting different types of people together to experience stuff
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Killing two birds with one stone, keeping up with my correspondence, listening, driving, facial recognition, doodling, over-introducing people, name that tune, resourcing
The first things people usually notice about me
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My firm handshake. My hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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- J.M. Coetzee, currently reading Elena Ferrante
- Clueless, The Departed
- 30 Rock (I should get out more)
- Paul Simon, Gillian Welch, R. Kelly, The War on Drugs, Mark Knopfler, The Shirelles, Taylor Swift (Ryan Adams, Father John Misty)
- Seafood, red wine, chickpea derivatives

I've listened to this once a day for six months -
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Swimming in the ocean, live music, a community, post-thunderstorm ozone, yoga, seltzer water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oak trees, scandinavia, zoning laws, sweet dee, logistics, how the relationship between captain john smith and pocahontas set the precedent for race relations in this country, playlists, grace kelly, going on safari, how my grandparents met, contradictions in morality
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing or sitting or traveling
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a hot water bottle
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You appreciate both pop music and snark.