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43 Belleville, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:56am
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Originally from this area, I am returning after a 15 year stint in NYC. It is a tough transition, but a good one.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently teach at a local college. I am slowly getting acquainted with suburbia. I am forever trying to focus on the present.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating, I laugh easily, I work hard and relax well. Before my teaching career I was a singer and actress. I think I was pretty good, but there came a point where bohemia no longer seemed just meant poor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It seems to be my eyes. Or that they think they have met me before. I am familiar that way. I am often told I look like Lainie Kazaan. or Bette Midler. Whatevs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Godfather I and II, Woody Allen (specifically Manhattan and Hannah and her Sisters), old black and white movies, anything with Bette Davis, and I am a sucker for post apocalyptic psychological thrillers.
Books: Varied titles by C.S.Lewis, Anna Quinlan, Barbara Kingsolver, Tim Keller, Anne LaMott, Donald Miller. Erik Larson.
Shows: I love the occasional musical, Tennessee Williams, Chekhov, Opera, etc....
Music: Very eclectic tastes, but my default is folk-rock, namely EddiefromOhio. Also, David Wilcox, The Who, Led Zeppelin, Queen, Beatles, and anything Stevie Wonder wrote in the 70's. Sting, Edward Sharp. Alanis. Ani. The Doors. Jethro Tull. Dolly. The Lumineers. The Avett Bros. Mumford and Sons. Lou Barlow. Sarah Barielles.
Food: Sure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Mass transit.
Coffee with milk.
Swedish fish.
My phone charger.
My Bathtub.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fate. Chaos. John Calvin. If the love you take really is equal to the love you make.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chilling out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I get home, whether on my lunch hour or even if I am just going to be home for 30 minutes, I always put on my pajamas.
You should message me if
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If you read my profile and want to grab a drink and have some great conversation. Even if it doesn't work out, there is always a story.