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julioa1980

33 M Tucson, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:51pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am looking for someone that complements me and is proud of what I represent. I do not know when I will find the right lady but in the meantime I am being optimistic, getting to know new people and building up my career and assets, so that when I meet her I will be ready. Dating could be both fun and exhausting and I have few rules: I think it is important to develop a relationship step by step with open eyes, a warm heart and a cold mind in order to know the other’s intentions and avoid falling in codependency and a dead end relationship. I am also looking for a mature person that has job, life and relationship experience.

I am hard working and committed to my career. I think that building up my career is fundamental for growing in other areas of my life. I am a foreign government officer, a political scientist. I do political, security and economic cooperation between the US and Mexico so that our countries can solve mutual problems. I believe in a world where freedom, justice and prosperity prevail over poverty, inequality and oppression. I think I am lucky to be alive in this Postmodern era when the world is flat and interconnected and our quality and length of life have been so much increased.

I love traveling and being exposed to new cultures and individuals. I think that the world is a mosaic of different expressions of how to live and there is not a right way to do things, but many ways to get things done. I like to broaden my vision of the world by traveling, reading, writing and conversing. There is so much to learn from others that I try to be receptive all the time. I also should mention that I am a Mexico City transplant and I have been in Arizona for more than a year.

I take care of my body and mind. I work out to release the stress of the day. I like to run 4 miles a day and hit the gym regularly. I try to eat healthy food and avoid processed food and soft drinks, but from time to time I indulge myself with some sweets.

I think that living in community is important. A family is the backbone of any person and the community is also a very important component of social life. For me it is fundamental to acknowledge others and their needs and expectations and treat them fairly. Empathy is very important. I believe that the world could be a very peaceful place to live if we showed more compassion and understanding to others.

I love reading, watching the news and documentaries. I love political science and international relations literature. I do love reading the newspaper with a cup of coffee. I would also engage in deep conversations over a glass of wine. I am not into literature (poems, tales and novels) but I love reading literature on how to be a better person.

I think touching is a very important way to express loved and being loved. I love cuddling and seeing movies. I think that is a very romantic moment, a very private moment when you are aware and sharing your feelings with your special one. Quality time is also one of my ways of expressing my love to someone.

I think there is nothing for sure in life and the gray areas are the rule, not the exception. So far I think that faith is the most rational of all the choices. I want to have faith that everywhere I go, whatever I do for a living, whomever I am with, I will be fine, happy and grateful. I am learning how to not to struggle and enjoy life. I was raised catholic and then tried other Christian denominations. Right now I do respect religion but I am agnostic and eclectic.

Will leave you with a quote that I found interesting: "Dating without the intent of marriage, is like going grocery shopping with no money. You either leave unsatisfied or take something that isn't yours"
What I’m doing with my life
I am a political scientist and I am in the realm of international relations. I do political, security and economic cooperation between the US and Mexico so that our countries can build up trust and work together to solve mutual problems. I believe in a world where freedom, justice and prosperity prevail over poverty, inequality and oppression. I am currently building up my career and exploring the world in view of settling down someday with the right girl. I think I am very lucky to be alive in this Postmodern era when the world is flat and interconnected and our quality and length of life have been so much increased.
I’m really good at
Public relations.
Public speaking.
Sports.
Reading and Writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My passion for life.
My desire for bettering myself and my life.
My smile and leadership.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV shows
The office
Arrested Development
Parks and Recreation

Music
Electronic
Country
Pop

Food
International food
The six things I could never do without
Laptop
IPhone
Books
Passport
Car
GPS
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future goals and current strategies. I am obsessed with improving myself and my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Running errands
Doing chores
Doing Laundry
Grocery shopping
Trying to get rid of house keeping stuff so I can have a fresh start over the weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have made many mistakes in life. Some of them have been falling in love with the wrong people... Love must be a rational choice that supports a gut feeling.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like me and are looking for a sincere relationship full of companionship, friendship, fun, intensity, road trips, cooking, dinning out, jogs, hikes, movies, dance parties, singing to foreign songs...!

I’m a planner and I stay busy with work and personal projects, so I like to have things set in my calendar for the week ahead. I would appreciate if we can agree in advance on when and where to get together. I would go for something casual to get to know you. I would say:

Coffee and a walk in the evening

Drinks over happy hour.

Breakfast, brunch or lunch.