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29 Somerville, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Graduated from university
Mostly monogamous

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My self-summary
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The one thing I am most passionate about: taking care of others, helping people, and making people smile. Yes – I know that sounds cheesy – but I try really hard to brighten the day of everyone I meet, even if that’s just by asking a cashier how they are or holding the door open for someone. I try to always think of that quote by the Dalai Lama: “Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.”
Chat me up. On the hunt for great friends. Every great relationship starts with a few decent words. Being direct will give you answers.If you're interested at all, click interested!!! or message me! I'm "looking" for friends, dates, and hopefully a long term type deal. just seeing what's up. I legit just wanna find some cool people.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work a lot in the telecommunications industrie/ account manager and my job can take up a lot of time. But I always make time for my friends and family. Working on owning my own condo buy late 2015-early 2016 time frame (Long Term Goal).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking my mind and being honest with my feelings and emotions.Oh yeah, I can cook pretty good though I have been only juicing lately.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a funny laugh and I am always smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Michael Connelly and James Patterson novels

Movies: Boondock Saints, Wet Hot American Summer, Sandlot

Music: Any hip hop with a sick beat, John Legend, Alicia Keys, Techno, ambient music makes me feel very chill and cool.

TV: Curb Your Enthusiasm, Extras, Weeds, Arrested Development, The Office, Friends, Summer Heights High

Food: I like everything but Filipino food satisfies my stomach and my heart.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
learning, friends, family, and my ps4.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Long term life goals. What's next in life, space, really random things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Apparently everyone has some variation of "Going out but sometimes I like to just chill at home with a movie and a bottle of wine"....yeah, same here. I do enjoy going out for a fancy cocktail.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ummm....... I guess it's private, lol
You should message me if
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you're a nice guy with an interesting story, not shallow, open minded, cultured, and ambitious.