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julybaby8th

42 / F / straight / Single

Stratford-upon-Avon, United Kingdom

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White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
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New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
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Other
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Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am a mother of 2, 42, and an optimist.

My Self-Summary

I have not been single in a long while. I am looking for a deeperunion ;) .
I have had ample time to sort through my feelings about my ex, and am now ready to move forward. I have no time to worry over things that happened behind me.. Infact, it may have triggered some latent, smouldering, passionate but submissive potential in my psyche which I am going to explore with said Man.
I am a rare commodity in the respect that I am a woman who knows what she wants, I want my man to be the same but a loving Dominant and act upon those desires as what are beautiful words without actions
I am as yet untouched in this wonderful state of mind as if reborn. I need interfusion with another mind both beautifull and exquisite and expirienced.

My lack of expirience in in my new interest does not mean I cannot spot wannabes. I do not wish to teach or learn together. I am at my beginning and need to be nurtured. Of course my man will be VERY attentive. To be clear , I will settle for nothing but love.

What I’m doing with my life

Letting go of parts of my past; I am single for the first time in 16 years, and the notion is quite refreshing as well as scary, but in a good way. This singledom shall allow my personality to flourish, as I experience the world around me with newfound vigor.
1) abusing a dictionary
2) writing everything down emotional and creative
3) considering going back to some form of Education - to try for that elusive maths
4)Looking to move to USA with a view to buying a small business, so maybe possible to partner up in this respect also. That person wont have to be romantically involved

I’m really good at

not deciding what I'll do when I grow up
Feeding the family
peacemaker and voice of reason (well, usually)
decorating the christmas tree
laughing
Thinking about erotic sentences ha
Kissing , my mouth was made for it

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm absolutely not like other parents.
Effervescent personality, zany and deranged sense of humour.
They notice that I'm loosing weight.
They notice on closer inspection that one of my iris's is slightly yellow.
apparently I have a nice face and good teeth
A wooden leg, an eye patch and a parrot on my shoulder ha harrrr:
Oh yes, and the Boobage!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

cat stevens, seth lakeman, ac/dc, ironmaiden, THIN LIZZY, ivor biggun, vivaldi (I lie, I havn't even got Four Seasons), bett middler,creedence clearwater revival, lou reed,Yes,RUSH,Led zep (a bit),WEIRD AL YANKOVIC, sam cooke,abba,Killers, kings of Leon,chilli peppers,Genesis,Pink Floyd,Daft Punk, shakira, infact most things except some jazz and boy bands.
spicy or chilli, or salmony stuff, sun dried tomatoes, cajun,or just a nice roast. love salad.
funny films, martial arts,action, adventure. dont like horror. Tv... Malcolm in the Middle, Southpark, Mock the week, 8 out of ten cats, House, Ugly Betty.....

Einsteins theory of relativity, String theory,Any thing to do with Quantum Physics, partical accelerators. All on laymans terms of course. Lord of the Rings ( sooo pedictable). Planet Narnia by Micheal Ward .Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach, Jonathon Livingston Seagul by the same, one, maps, travel books. I have to give a worthy mention to The Bard himself as I live -- that close to his town.

The six things I could never do without

A really good mattress - I value my sleep and other things!

my electric toothbrush

great views after a good walk

moisturiser

a good vegetable peeler

over the shoulder boulder holder

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

Tall, handsome, Dominating Americans for some reason and wishing I was owned by one. Quantum mechanics, God and sex,not in that order. Wishing I lived in california or hawaii. Oh good grief then. I spend a lot of time thinking about almost everything. Death and Life - theres two biggies. It scares the crap out of me and exhilarates at the same time. Then what?, Nothing?, I cant allow myself to believe it. I hang my soul on the coat hook of science, maybe looking for answers that suit. Although I do not think God and science are mutually exclusive.
I think alot of trying to improve as a person and how I interact with others. It was easier when I didn't. - I'm mostly not so deep as its tiring. I try to balance it out with humour and laughter. I used to be very creative, I lost it for a while but now its coming back I'm pleased to say.

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On a typical Friday night I am

Always at home with the children, although I would like to get a life.... By Jove, I'm going to get one too chaps. Hurrah!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Ive got a tattoo of a dragon on my back.... still not good enough.
I was a bit of a wild child of the 80's and took magic mushrooms (not anymore, Im trying to protect my last few living brain cells)
On a jouney of self discovery regarding *** or lack of it and realised I am not vanilla ;) remotely. However, only one man for me.

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You should message me if

You are Dominant, but looking for a serious relationship and dont mind taking control and are quite masculine, in a loving way (tall,ripped, intelligent and muscular is also good). You just want to chat here, maybe at some point go for a drink -as long as you bring along a medical certification notice proving mental stability. (Although I don't drink much - cheap to take out then and someone to drive) I really want to meet interesting people that have unique viewpoints on lots of subjects. Humorous people very welcome, especially if its really bad ass and black humour.
You shouldn't message me if you think I'm just on here for internet sex... its boring and pointless.
You'll need to have a reasonable level of intellect as well.

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