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51 Greensboro, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:40am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the "play" instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves." - Carl Jung

I'm looking for a new friend to do things & have fun with, if something profound happens between us that would be great, but it's not necessary to just getting together to have fun.

"It is not good for man/woman to be alone". - Genesis 2:18
What I’m doing with my life
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I worked for 20 years in the software engineering business, the last half as a consultant. After my mom died of cancer in 2004 I decided to stay in Greensboro and try the road less traveled. I had worked and schooled all over NC in the earlier part of my adult life, I consulted for IBM, Wachovia/Wells Fargo, and Vanity Fair/Lee/Wrangler...good experience but I felt that it was leading me to an early demise.
I'm a composer/publisher member of ASCAP (American Society Of Composers & Producers). I create instrumental music for licensing to film/tv/commercials/online music channels/video games. Past & present clients include Bacardi Brands Worldwide, the Discovery Network, PMG, Tinderbox, Epitome, and online some online music channels. My music has been aired on FM radio as far away as Queensland, Australia. The GSO News & Record did a piece on me in the Life section some time ago. I live simply in a home/home studio (also known as a house), that faces a picturesque park with a running stream/creek near UNC-G. I enjoy the things that occupy my work life. And I do miss the social aspect of working a conventional job, but there's a great feeling that comes when someone sends you a contract to sell your's very rewarding when your music is used commercially.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Survival, creating music from thin air, managing my home studio (this is almost a 24 hr a day job), mastering software that would drive most to drink or suicide. I'm a big film buff & love to talk music of the 70's-today. I was huge into mountain cycling until I ruptured a disc and threw a monkey-wrench into my spine. I consider myself to be approachable, empathetic, a great listener, educated, able to talk to anyone on almost any subject, generous, romantic, optimistic. I love to keep things positive and never moody..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't presume to know the answer to this, i could say a few obvious things about broad shoulders & blue eyes, checkbones (these are things that women have said to me)...I like my hands personally, I've always been fascinated by hands, they're like a face, they say alot about the owner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bios, classics, esoterics, history.
Film: I love films by Scorsese, PT Anderson, Ridley Scott, Guy Ritchie, Steven Spielberg, Wm.Friedklin, David Fincher, John Frankenheimer, David Lynch, Christopher Nolan, some Kurosawa, Bergman, Hitchcock etc...

TV: top-notch drama, comedy, documentaries, and reality based programming on NatGeo, Discovery, History...everything from Ancient Aliens to Orange Is The New Black to Penny Dreadful, Boardwalk Empire, The Leftovers, Manhattan, The Knick, Palladia (music around the world), and Hurricanes ice-hockey...oh, and I love politics (CSPAN, MSNBC, Stewart/Colbert). TV & film are homework for me as much as entertainment.

Music: my influences are Pink Floyd, Steely Dan, The Doors, The Who, David Bowie, Led Zep, Van Halen, The Clash/Joe Strummer/Mick Jones/BAD, Genesis/Peter Gabriel, Gorillaz, RUSH, ELP, Kate Bush, Aerosmith, Stevie Wonder, Nick Cave & Bad Seeds, Norah Jones, Diana Krall, The Black Keys, Elton John, Miles Davis, Sting/Police, Weather Report, King Crimson, Alice In Chains, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, The Beatles, Jethro Tull, YES, The Cult, Thievery Corp, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Portishead, Minehead (that's me !)...

Food: I try to keep it healthy, and try new things, but I have to grab a steak every now & then, Mex, ITA, Greek.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
all the good health I can eek out, faith, technology, a firm, warm bed & cool pillow, family/friends, and music sweet music...real list: air, water, food, shelter, sex, ...someone to daydream about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually I don't think alot about any one thing, I think a little bit about thousands of things per second.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be doing mostly anything...or mostly doing nothing...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wear a size 12 shoe...
I've had a dozen surgeries following a bicycling accident back in the late 90's, 4 of them on my spine...I'm kinda' stiff & gimpy but I deal with it like we all deal with life's bumps, bruises, & head-on collisions (with meds !)..
You should message me if
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If you respect monogamous relationships, you're a great kisser and your libido is functioning, then we have a foundation to launch a friendship/ relationship. All that stuff about interests and pets you like & music very's the intangibles that make up attraction. Ppl have to meet, hug, look over a dinner table at each other and then see if the chemistry is there.