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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:38pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the "play" instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves." - Carl Jung

“If you wanted to play with fire, milady, you could have simply asked me for a kiss ...”

I'm a 20 year vet of software development/computer consulting, and worked for IBM, Wells Fargo/Wachovia, Vanity Fair, et al.
I now spend my life as a member of ASCAP (American Society Of Composers And Publishers).

I create music for licensing to film, TV, video games, & web sites. Past and present clients include Bacardi Brands Worldwide, PMG, Tinderbox, and Epitome Music. My music has been played on FM radio as far away as Queensland, Australia. The GSO News And Record did a piece on me in the Life section a while back, actually it's been a few years, tempus fugit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
livin' the dream, with room for improvement ...but I need a proper woman in my life, someone to muse over...

I could use a few hundred more grand to invest in my studio, but I can make do without it...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been pretty successful in most things that I've applied myself to in life. I have an affinity for technology, for the arts and for sports...but music has been the constant in my life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a great kisser...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I spend so much time reading Help sections for the technology I use I barely have leisure reading time these days. I like to crack open some Jung, Freud, Burroughs to give myself something to ponder ...and I do like Poe, Kafka, Melville, and Dostoyevski.

I don't really have favorites, I have different degrees of things I like...I love shell fish, a Filet at Green Valley Grill (God can they cook a Filet) ...i like Mex & Ita, I'm not very picky about food, I'll try new things, but the only time I think about food is when I have a date that involves it. I eat like a monk most of the time, just simple foodstuffs, not much meat except on a sandwich. Cooking a steak for yourself seems like such a lonely endeavor.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Health is everything when you are middle-aged, faith, technology, a firm, warm bed & cool pillow, family/friends, and music sweet music...and someone that's interesting enough to warrant spontaneous periods of daydreaming.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually I don't think alot about any one thing, I think a little bit about thousands of things per second.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be doing mostly anything...or mostly doing nothing...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had a dozen neurological and orthopedic surgeries from 1998-2008 due to sports injuries, 4 on my spine. I'm kinda' stiff & gimpy (but that's what meds are for !). I'm also 3" shorter than I was a decade ago. I'm tall on my back...hehe, I love that joke.
You should message me if
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- You have a great sense of humor & laugh till your head fills up with endorphins and you almost pass out
- you like evenings out and evenings in, cooking, dining, a movie or two, enjoying conversation, scrabble, mastering Texas Hold 'em Poker (so we can knock a few casinos dead on a Vegas rampage) or just playing snuggle bunnies on the couch
- you don't have hang-ups about intimacy

finally, and most importantly:
- you should be date ready, life is running out.
let's do something for God's sake.