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52 Greensboro, NC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 22
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the "play" instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves." - Carl Jung

I am: 52, a true southern gentleman (without the regional accent), who is witty, honest, good natured , empathetic, romantic, kind, multi-faceted, affectionate. I love to make ppl laugh, I'm never moody or in bad humor. Life is too much fun (and too short) for that.

you are: ...intelligent, witty, attractive, affectionate, liberal, honest, open, empathetic, and self-possessed. Character, personality, and wit are paramount in my book.

I'm a 20 year vet of software development/computer consulting, and worked for IBM, Wells Fargo/Wachovia, Vanity Fair, et al.

...a musician since age 8, an all-city hockey player, and a very engaged athlete from an early age.

I now spend my days, nights, and weekends occupied as a composer/publisher member of ASCAP.
"I asked for it, and for my sins, they gave it to me..." This is soooo hard....but I'll deal with it like a BOSS. I'm kidding, I love it, but it is very competitive and you have to have tough hide to deal with the jerks that don't know a fart from a B flat. The music business is full of dolts, pinheads, toadies, and liars of every stripe. And since I don't know 99% of the ppl I deal with except by email, I can't very-well make accurate VooDoo dolls to impale with their likenesses.

I create music for licensing to film, TV, video games, web sites. Past and present clients include Bacardi Brands Worldwide, PMG, Tinderbox, and Epitome Music. My music has been played on FM radio as far away as Queensland, Australia. The GSO News And Record did a piece on me in the Life section a while back.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"going where I want, instead of where I should..."
I had an opportunity to create a documentary film in 2007 and it lead me to freelancing in music & film. I create music for film/tv/video games/web. I've placed over 20 tracks in over 20 genres & sub-genres on the net's largest site for independent musicians.
what am I actually doing:
Working 24/7 like a galley slave in my home studio, keeping up with technology & with my musical chops.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hitting things with sticks (thanks goes to Alex Van Halen for that one).

Doomsday Prepping, you should see my Doomsday Palace...I named it Xanadu...I have a three-headed dog that patrols the front gate.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a great kisser...oh, the first thing...hmm...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I have the craziest reading list you've ever seen...Bios, classics, esoterics, history. I don't read fiction except for classics by Kafka, Dostoyevsky, WS Burroughs, etc...(would like to get into Cormac McCarthy ) might catch me reading anything from Tantric Sex books to the Senate hearing transcripts 2 days after the Titanic sank. I have a wide range of interests, some I obsess about for short periods, some for decades. I've been known to binge on bios of Howard Hughes, Jim Morrison, Buddy Rich, Marlon Brando, and Miles Davis.

Film: I love films by Scorsese, PT Anderson, Ridley Scott, Guy Ritchie, Steven Spielberg, Wm.Friedklin, David Fincher, John Frankenheimer, David Lynch, Christopher Nolan, some Kurosawa, Bergman, Hitchcock etc...

TV: top-notch drama, comedy, documentaries, and reality based programming on NatGeo, Discovery, History...everything from Ancient Aliens (yes these ppl are kinda' crazy, but they have conviction) to Orange Is The New Black, House Of Cards, Penny Dreadful, Peaky Blinders, True Detective, Vikings, Boardwalk Empire, The Leftovers, Salem, Manhattan, The Knick, Deadwood, Hannibal, South Park, Palladia (music around the world), and Hurricanes ice-hockey...oh, and I love politics (CSPAN, MSNBC, Stewart/Colbert/Maher).

Music: Pink Floyd (live bootlegs from '68-'77 mainly), Steely Dan, The Doors, The Who, David Bowie, Led Zep, Van Halen, The Clash/Joe Strummer/Mick Jones/BAD, Genesis/Peter Gabriel, Gorillaz, RUSH, ELP, Kate Bush, Aerosmith, Stevie Wonder, Nick Cave, Tom Waits, Norah Jones, Diana Krall, The Black Keys, Elton John, Miles Davis, Sting/Police, Weather Report, King Crimson, Alice In Chains, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, The Beatles, Jethro Tull, YES, The Cult, Thievery Corp, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Portishead, Minehead (that's me !)...

Food: I try to keep it healthy, and try new things, but I have to grab a steak every now & then, Mex, ITA, Greek.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Health is everything when you are middle-aged, faith, technology, a firm, warm bed & cool pillow, family/friends, and music sweet music...and someone that's interesting enough to warrant spontaneous periods of daydreaming.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually I don't think alot about any one thing, I think a little bit about thousands of things per second.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be doing mostly anything...or mostly doing nothing...
I would rather be meeting a new stranger, or following up with a new friend.

or continue "Lookin' for that lost jazz note."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've had a dozen neurological and orthopedic surgeries from 1998-2008 due to sports injuries, 4 on my spine. I'm kinda' stiff & gimpy (but that's what meds are for). I'm also 3" shorter than I was a decade ago, which was nearly 6'. I do gain some of that lost height when lying supine, pretty common in ppl w/Scoliosis. I'm tall on my back in other words...hehehe, I love that joke.
You should message me if
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You think we'd get along like a house on fire, you'd like to have a gentleman to go out and do things with. 420 friendly's are cool...anything other than that is frowned upon. I mention it because the last woman I dated was a weed-head. And although I don't use, she was much easier to handle than a sloppy black-out drunk. I don't judge, especially if I find your company enjoyable...ppl are always going to drink, smoke, swear, have sex...and eat turkey sandwiches at 4am.