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51 Greensboro, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:29pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the "play" instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves." - Carl Jung

I am: 51, a true southern gentleman (without the regional accent), who is witty, honest, good natured , empathetic, romantic, kind, multi-faceted, deeply affectionate, and a handsome devil.

I'm a 20 year vet of software development/computer consulting, and worked for IBM, Wells Fargo/Wachovia, Vanity Fair (the apparel multi-conglom not the magazine) amongst others...a musician since age 8, an all-city hockey player, and a very serious athlete from an early age. I'm currently occupied as a composer/publisher member of ASCAP. I create music for licensing to film, TV, video games, web sites. Past and present clients include Bacardi Brands Worldwide, PMG, Tinderbox, and Epitome Music. My music has been played on FM radio as far away as Queensland, Australia. The GSO News And Record did a piece on me in the Life section a while back. I'm using my background as a recording engineer and electronics engineer to develop software used in digital audio recording and iOS Apps are a future goal. I've had a dozen surgeries following a bicycling accident in late1990's. 4 of them on my spine, so I'm kinda' stiff & gimpy (but that's what meds are for).
What I’m doing with my life
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Working 7 days a week throughout the morning, afternoon, and evening. Even though I'm sort of semi-retired, I'm involved in an ever-evolving business plan that morphs on a seemingly daily basis. I have several irons in the fire and it's exciting to see how long and how far I can take it. I've had extraordinary things happen in the last few years that I couldn't have imagined.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a musician above all else, since starting on trumpet at age 8 then drums/percussion at 10. I was playing in college bands by the time I was 16. I also play guitar and keyboards, because you can't write songs on a drum kit. There's just something about guitar that epitomizes rock music, and I have more fun playing it than any other instrument.

Other things that I'm good at...creating instrumental music and charting in national Top 10's in over 20 genres/sub-genres of music...that is no easy feat, few Indie musicians can make that claim. I've always been great at sports, and I have a wide range of experience on all computer platforms...I'm a techno-geek with the soul of an artist...and a bit of a romantic idealist realist.

I also write lyrics, I've written an original screenplay, and I've created, produced, and released a 60 minute documentary on DVD about a Conscientious Objector who was thrown in the Ft. Lewis Brig after filing CO Status after his first tour in Iraq. Proceeds were for his defense fund.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If we meet, I'll let you fill this in...I haven't a clue beyond blue eyes, broad shoulders, and biceps that are like concrete. 40+ years of drumming will do that to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bios, classics, esoterics, history.
Film: I love films by Scorsese, PT Anderson, Ridley Scott, Guy Ritchie, Steven Spielberg, Wm.Friedklin, David Fincher, John Frankenheimer, David Lynch, Christopher Nolan, some Kurosawa, Bergman, Hitchcock etc...

TV: top-notch drama, comedy, documentaries, and reality based programming on NatGeo, Discovery, History...everything from Ancient Aliens to Orange Is The New Black to Penny Dreadful, Peaky Blinders, True Detective, Boardwalk Empire, The Leftovers, Salem, Manhattan, The Knick, South Park, Palladia (music around the world), and Hurricanes ice-hockey...oh, and I love politics (CSPAN, MSNBC, Stewart/Colbert/Maher).

Music: my influences are Pink Floyd, Steely Dan, The Doors, The Who, David Bowie, Led Zep, Van Halen, The Clash/Joe Strummer/Mick Jones/BAD, Genesis/Peter Gabriel, Gorillaz, RUSH, ELP, Kate Bush, Aerosmith, Stevie Wonder, Nick Cave & Bad Seeds, Norah Jones, Diana Krall, The Black Keys, Elton John, Miles Davis, Sting/Police, Weather Report, King Crimson, Alice In Chains, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, The Beatles, Jethro Tull, YES, The Cult, Thievery Corp, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Portishead, Minehead (that's me !)...

Food: I try to keep it healthy, and try new things, but I have to grab a steak every now & then, Mex, ITA, Greek.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Health is everything when you are middle-aged, faith and the acceptance of a higher being, technology, a firm, warm bed & cool pillow, family/friends, and music sweet music...real list: air, water, food, shelter, sex/intimacy ...someone to daydream about.

"Sex" does not exclusively mean "intercourse" in my lexicon. Touching, being close, kissing...these are the important things that generate & release healthy brain chemicals, sex is a gift from God, an equalizer that everyone, regardless of socio-economic status, can have as the greatest pleasure in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually I don't think alot about any one thing, I think a little bit about thousands of things per second.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be doing mostly anything...or mostly doing nothing...
I would rather be meeting a new stranger, or following up with a new friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wear a size 12 shoe...triple EEE width...feet like snowshows...
You should message me if
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You find me as interesting as I find you, that would be the prerequisite to the start of a friendship/relationship.
In addition you respect monogamous relationships, you're a great kisser and your libido is functioning, then we have a foundation to launch a friendship/ relationship. All that stuff about interests and pets you like & music relevant, but not's the intangibles that make up attraction. Ppl have to meet, hug, look over a dinner table at each other and then see if the chemistry is there. Table for two ?