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51 Greensboro, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:35am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the "play" instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves." - Carl Jung

me, free as a bird apparently...and "at play" according to Dr. Carl Gustav Jung.
certified as Recording Engineer then earned degree in Electronic Engineering.
20+ year career in software development & consulting (IBM, Vanity Fair/Lee, Wachovia/Wells Fargo).
All-City Ice Hockey player as a youth as well as baseball. I began music at age 8 with trumpet then drums/percussion at 10, then guitar & keyboards. Music is the love of my life and I now create instrumental music and I've charted over 20 tracks in over 20 genres/sub-genres on the internet's largest Indie Music Site. I create, perform, and license my original music.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a composer/publisher member of ASCAP (American Society Of Composers & Producers). I create instrumental music for licensing to film/tv/commercials/online music channels/video games. Past & present clients include Bacardi Brands Worldwide, the Discovery Network, PMG, Tinderbox, Epitome, and online some online music channels. My music has been aired on FM radio as far away as Queensland, Australia. The GSO News & Record did a piece on me in the Life section some time ago. I live simply and finally enjoy the things that occupy my work life. I do miss the social aspect of working a conventional job, but there's a great feeling that accompanies someone who sends you a contract to sell your music. That's very rewarding.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I could say something very clever here, and have in the past, but I'll just make it simple, because ultimately ppl want honesty...I'm good at the things I've mentioned...sports, music, physics of sound and managing my home studio (this is almost a 24 hr a day job), software, big film buff & love to talk music of the 70's-today. I was huge into mountain cycling until I ruptured a disc and blew my lumbar spine apart. I consider myself to be approachable, empathetic, a great listener, educated and able to talk to anyone on almost any subject, generous, romantic, optimistic. I love to keep things positive and never moody, nothing kills my buzz like a person who uses mood swings to manipulate ppl & situations. I give it back like I receive it, actually i bend over backwards to do that because ultimately I'm a hopeless romantic who has just never met the person that I thought I would meet in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't presume to know the answer to this, i could say a few obvious things about broad shoulders & blue eyes, checkbones (these are things that women have said to me)...I like my hands personally, I've always been fascinated by hands, they can be the most erotic part of a person (even when they grow old). So if we meet, and you catch me staring at your hands, you're forewarned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bios, classics, esoterics, history.
Film: I love films by Scorsese, PT Anderson, Ridley Scott, Guy Ritchie, Steven Spielberg, Wm.Friedklin, David Fincher, John Frankenheimer, David Lynch, Christopher Nolan, some Kurosawa, Bergman, Hitchcock etc...

TV: top-notch drama, comedy, documentaries, and reality based programming on NatGeo, Discovery, History...everything from Ancient Aliens to Orange Is The New Black to Penny Dreadful, Boardwalk Empire, The Leftovers, Manhattan, The Knick, Palladia (music around the world), and Hurricanes ice-hockey...oh, and I love politics (CSPAN, MSNBC, Stewart/Colbert). TV & film are homework for me as much as entertainment.

Music: my influences are Pink Floyd, Steely Dan, The Doors, The Who, David Bowie, Led Zep, Van Halen, The Clash/Joe Strummer/Mick Jones/BAD, Genesis/Peter Gabriel, Gorillaz, RUSH, ELP, Kate Bush, Aerosmith, Stevie Wonder, Nick Cave & Bad Seeds, Norah Jones, Diana Krall, The Black Keys, Elton John, Miles Davis, Sting/Police, Weather Report, King Crimson, Alice In Chains, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, The Beatles, Jethro Tull, YES, The Cult, Thievery Corp, Massive Attack, Radiohead, Portishead, Minehead (that's me !)...

Food: I try to keep it healthy, and try new things, but I have to grab a steak every now & then, Mex, ITA, Greek.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
all the good health I can eek out, faith, technology, a firm, warm bed & cool pillow, family/friends, and music sweet music...real list: air, water, food, shelter, sex, ...someone to daydream about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
shameless self-promotion (occupational necessity)...putting targets on markets (occupational necessity)...creating commercially successful music that doesn't bow down to trends (this is impossible by definition, but one can always hope).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be doing mostly anything...or mostly doing nothing...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had a dozen surgeries following a bicycling accident back in the late 90's, 4 of them on my spine...I'm kinda' stiff & gimpy but I deal with it like we all deal with life's bumps, bruises, & head-on collisions (with meds !)..
You should message me if
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you are ready to strike up a line of communication...and actually meet me (or anyone). If you respect monogamous relationships, you're a great kisser and your libido is functioning, then we have a foundation to launch a friendship/ relationship. All that stuff about interests and pets you like & music all very irrelevant. That's not a guarantee of anything. Ppl have to meet, hug, look over a dinner table at each other and then see if the chemistry is there.