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40 Columbus, OH Man


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  • Ages 27–47
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Yesterday – 7:08pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Lithuanian (Poorly)

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I'm basically just a regular John Doe...searching for my Exene!

I'm a 40 year-old with a great job, a ton of hobbies/passions, 2 cats, a growing catalog of short plays, a big CD collection and a lot of old running shoes. And a future.

Just dreaming of the day I'll meet a girl who loves the Triffids. Or Julian Cope. Or I would settle for Nick Cave. I mean a girl who loves Nick Cave, I don't want to date Nick Cave himself.
What I’m doing with my life
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For a living, I'm in the fitness industry! Well, that at least sounds better than retail. But in fact, it's retail management of an incredibly successful running store.

I'm also an actor/writer/director of stage productions. This year I'm acting more than ever. As I type this I've got 5 different shows being prepared.

And finally, I'm a runner. Semi-competitive. If numbers mean anything, I run my half-marathons in the 1:35 to 1:40 range.

Er, well these days more like 1:53 time range. I got older.
I’m really good at
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I'm really good at making people laugh, eventually. You might think my humor is pretty stupid at first. But if you're smart and share at least a little of my wavelength, you'll come around. I believe that jokes are for the teller. If anyone else laughs, that's just a bonus.

I'm really great at making friends. Admittedly, this skill sometimes isn't very useful when it comes to dating. But I continue to believe that for the right person, it will matter. It's worked before.

And I'm a good runner. I can manage the pain well!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Flashy running shoes! Muscular calves, messy hair, and a quick wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a big rock and roll collector. I've lost touch with a lot of what is popular and well-known today, but I've got a lot of favorites. My Big 4 are The Fall, The Gogol Bordello, Nick Cave and Julian Cope. But there are a lot of other things I love. Interesting fact, the first time the Gogol Bordello every played in Ohio was 2002, and I was the one who arranged and put on the show. For about 65 people.

I read a lot. Especially science fiction/fantasy. I just really love the concept of different worlds. My favorite writer by far is Philip K. Dick. Otherwise, I love Star Wars novels, the Song Of Fire And Ice Series (Game of Thrones), The Sookie Stackhouse Novels (True Blood), Arthur C. Clarke and Ray Bradbury. Oh, and Dune. I've been re-reading the whole series again.

I'm not a movie buff, but I of course watch them. The World's End was made just for me. Major League and V for Vendetta are my other favorites. Eternal Sunshine is another one, even though it almost ripped off a theme from a play I was writing when the movie came out.

My television comic hero is Charlie. The waitress won't go out with me either.

Oh, and Mike Polk Jr. and his cat. That's guys awesome.
I am a sports fan and I'm Cleveland all the way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Running Shoes
2. Books
3. My CDs
4. An opportunity to perform
5. Gretchen and Brix (yes, I'm a dude with cats)
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What do aliens really look like?

If there is an afterlife, what is it like? Do I get to choose?

If cats had developed opposable thumbs before the apes, where would we be now?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pub. Performing. Performing then pub. Late night run. Or maybe going to bed early. Retail means Saturday mornings can be busy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've seen "The World's End" twenty-two times...and counting.
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