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just_1_teek

36 / F / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm Italian and adorable, quirky, silly and blunt. Laughing is something I do best and could NEVER live without (a-duh). Saying exactly what's on my mind is a forte' of mine that either makes people laugh or cringe. I'm somewhat of an introvert, but don't mind being social...for a bit. :) I have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep convos. I love Sunday brunch, particularly with friends - makes my heart happy. I'm a chick who can chill almost anywhere and be content - ocean views and people watching - wicked. The moon and stars over the ocean on a given night always amaze me and remind of the beauty of our world. I like to take the time to appreciate them.

Yoga and a little walking to and fro (I'm a an urban walker), are essential to my sanity. I work out at the gym to watch important current events like football and inaugural celebrations.

Things that are super important to me: the love of my friends and one-on-one time with them, my dad, time to cultivate me, living eco-friendly as much as possible, my job.
What I’m doing with my life
I try to live in the present to the best of my ability. Like everyone else, I'm a work in progress- always trying to be a better friend, daughter... human being. I value where I'm at and who I am as a person.

I'm a special educator. My job is awesome and I kick ass at it.

I also love to write, create art, and drink wine - lots of it on given occasions.
I’m really good at
Camping. Photography. Road tripping. Cast iron cooking. Fire making. Writing (for work and pleasure). Lots of other stuff...
The first things people usually notice about me
-That I'm white (per my Asian friends).
-That I'm exhuberant.
-My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reads: Favorite book of all time is The Moon and Sixpence. Truman Capote, John Irving, and Hemingway are awesome. I also gravitate towards books about religion, history, travel, and the metaphysical.

Eats: Fresh and organic. Favs in order - Italian, Korean and Vietnamese - YUM.

Tunes: I listen to Pandora on a regular basis. A few of my stations - Citizen Cope, Neil Young, SOJA, Imagine Dragons, Mary J. Blige, Silversun Pickups - KPFA/NPR lover. And I freely admit there is more than one Justin Bieber song that I like.

Shows: No television, but who needs one with Netflix? Mad Men, How I Met Your Mama, Downtown Abby kind of stuff, Criminal Minds, etc.
The six things I could never do without
- warm jacket - down in particular
- public transportation
- hugs
- something to write with or on
- friends/family who love me
- the elliptical machine at the gym
I spend a lot of time thinking about
work and a ton of other stuff...all depends on the day.

Here's a sample of what's on my mind:
Why am I going in to work on a vacation day? Will there be good eye candy at the gym in the afternoon? How long will it take me to drive to Novato today to see my sisters? Do I email him back even though he asked me nothing in particular? Will there ever be peace? Should I get Pho for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
at the gym, out with friends, at home doing something or other and being content by myself...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I wear earplugs in clubs, bars, etc. They usually match my outfit.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
...you are interested in any of the above. :)

Or if...

You are a man who:
- has energy. I have a lot and am looking for someone similar.
- can handle a woman with LOTS of spunk, who is opinionated, and who sometimes says the first thing that comes to her mind.
- can be open and honest with his emotions.
- can communicate.
- knows how to put in the effort.
- lives with integrity, care, and passion in his life. I don't do things half-assed and I want someone similar.
- can be in the moment - in a conversation, sitting on the beach, in a crowd, etc. You are present.
- enjoys continued learning. Be it extended formal education, reading a book of interest...you like to learn and explore.
- wants to build a relationship with a foundation of friendship.

- please note I'm not looking for a one-night stand, casual sex of any sort..fuckbuddies need not apply