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36 / M / Gay / Single

Alexandria, Virginia

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
So I have decided to update this and my job told me I can no longer use my mom as my emergency contact:-). I also wanted to make this short and sweet.

I would rather just meet someone naturally while out and about versus reading a profile. You know immediately if there is physical attraction and chemistry.

I am a simple guy from rural south Georgia who left and made an awesome life and career for myself looking for monogamy. I'm conservative and not an "anything goes" kinda guy in a relationships. I prefer a guy who is already settled in his career and ready to focus on "us" for a lack of better terms.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in healthcare. No, I am not a nurse (not that being a nurse is a bad career choice). I am the guy between the nurse and physician. Guess what I am:-). I have strange and varied hours but I enjoy what I do. I work 3 days a week and off 4, so I really can't complain.
I’m really good at
Being myself. I am quiet but can be somewhat goofy and pretty funny once you get to know me. I have this kid inside of me that refuses to leave. I still get drawn into television when I see a cartoon showing. I used to love Scooby Doo as a kid. I still watch it when I can find it on TV. I am a huge fan of cartoons from the 80's Saturday morning. At least that's what Netflix tells me:-)
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile or that I look younger than my stated age in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love books my Michael Palmer. He's a physician out of Boston Mass who writes medical mysteries. Just finished reading "A Game of Thrones." I liked it. I'm starting the 2nd novel in the series now.

Favorite movies are: The Color Purple and Steel Magnolias. Huge Sally Field fan. Haha. Dont laugh at me.

My favorite shows are Brothers and Sisters (yay Sally Field), NCIS, NCIS Los Angeles, Law and Order SVU, Revenge, True Blood, Once Upon a Time, Blue Bloods, CSI NY, Merlin, Being Human, Downton Abby, Scandal, Grimm, Scooby Doo..etc
The six things I could never do without
1) The Gym
2) Running
3) Sweets ( I have a huge sweet tooth hence #1 and #2)
4) Laughter
5) Cellphone
6) HuluPlus, Amazon TV and NetFlix (I no longer have cable)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much longer am I really going to stay in DC giving the culture and atmosphere of this city. Great city but not for me is the conclusion I've come to after 3.5 years of living here. Don't really fit into gay community here.
On a typical Friday night I am
On my couch watching TV or as of late reading. I just finished reading the first book in the "A Game of Thrones" series. I have slowly weaned myself off of cable. I am ok with staying at home on a Friday night at this point in my life. Not looking for the next big blowout gay blast. I prefer to enjoy my weekends (If I am off) and not spend my saturday in bed recovering from a night of debauchery (Need spell check on this thing :-) ). Not that sleeping in every now and then is a bad thing. I'm also currently looking for a church. That probably alone freaks some of you out about me but I really do not care anymore about gay guys opinion on religion and church.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love the Golden Girls and I still get a #2 combo from Wendy's every now and then. Is that bad?? Lol.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–41
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are down to earth, caring, funny, warm, athletic/attractive (ehhh, I am a guy and I see the world through my eyes), and have a level head on your shoulders. Also message me if you are not extremely busy and not the typical DC gay guy who thinks way too highly of himself. You should realize that we are both humans and we will make mistakes from time to time. Some bigger than others:-). Wow! You made it to the end of this. I'm impressed:-)