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37 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 32–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:14am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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First off, I am still in Arlington, VA, just outside of Washington DC in an area called Pentagon City. I live by myself near Ronald Regan National Airport (DCA). I changed my location to Chicago because I am sincerely moving there in May 2015. I have this time frame (potentially earlier but definitely not later) because my lease will end around this time. Plus I work in healthcare in hospital settings and the credentialing process to work in a hospital usually takes several months. They have to verify that I am not a whack job. Lol. I have already applied for my Illinois license to work in the state to get the process going. I will make several trips (next one around Sept 22, 2014) to the area in the mean time for fun, to see you and for job interviews. You could also visit me in Virginia as well in the interim. I would like to think that I am worth it :-). Plus I am only 2 stops away from the airport on the Metro train and just across the Potomac River from DC (easy Metro ride again to get into DC).

Honestly, it would be awesome to have a somewhat established relationship before I move. It's getting old using my mom as an emergency contact on forms:-). I am no longer looking to date anyone in the DC area and I am not doing so because I know that I am leaving. I know this is easier said than done, but I am sincere and have no problems committing to one guy. There's planes, Skype and FaceTime (for fellow iphone users) to help ease this temporary burden of distance. Plus for the right guy, 8-9 months of distance would be well worth it, if it would allow and lead us to building something together that could last a life time.

Speaking of committing to one guy, I do not date several people at the same time. How could I truly get to know you and vice versa if I am splitting my time between you, Tom, Dick and Harry. I find that pointless and exhausting. Plus, I am not a huge fan of dating and competing for someone's attention. I like to be settled and I find dating unsettling. I am not using Ok Cupid to give me something to do on a Tuesday night. I am looking for a guy who would make me delete this application from my iphone, ipad and computer. Speaking of app's if you have "Grindr" or any of its equivalents on your phone, DO NOT message me. I see them as an unhealthy chemical additiction that most gay men can not get rid of. I do not want the hassle and once again I do not compete for people's attention:-)

I am a simple guy original from a really small town in rural south Georgia who left and made an awesome life and career ( I am not married to my career, I would rather be married to you). I am looking for monogamy. I'm conservative and not an "anything goes" kinda guy in a relationships. I would love to meet a guy that I can introduce to my family and friends one day. I would also like to meet his family and friends if possible as well. I think this is an important aspect to keeping a relationhip grounded and it adds an extra layer of accountability in my opinion. I prefer a guy who is already settled in his career and ready to focus on "us" for a lack of better terms. A guy with Midwestern values would be awesome. I would rather just meet somwhat naturally while out and about versus reading a profile. You know immediately if there is a physical attraction and chemistry. However, given that I am not local at the moment, that would be a challenge :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am focused mostly on relocating to Chicago at the moment. I work in healthcare as a Physician Assistant (PA) in Emergency Medicine. I work 3 12-hr shifts per week (usually nights by choice b/c I'm a night owl) and off 4 days a week. Work is very secondary to me. I work to live and definitely not the other way around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being myself. I am quiet but can be somewhat goofy and pretty funny once you get to know me. I have this kid inside of me that refuses to leave. I still get drawn into television when I see a cartoon showing. I used to love Scooby Doo as a kid. I still watch it when I can find it on TV. I am a huge fan of cartoons from the 80's Saturday morning. At least that's what Netflix tells me:-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile or that I look younger than my stated age in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books
1. The Velvet Rage ( its a definite life changer)
2. Game of Throne series ( I've finished all 5 books finally. Now I can start watching the series on TV)

Favorite Movies
1. The Color Purple
2. Steel Magnolias (Huge Sally Field fan. Haha. Dont laugh at me.)
3. The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

My favorite shows are Brothers and Sisters (yay Sally Field), NCIS, NCIS Los Angeles, Law and Order SVU, Revenge, True Blood, Once Upon a Time, Blue Bloods, CSI NY, Merlin, Being Human, Downton Abby, Scandal, Grimm, Scooby Doo..etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Gym/running
2) Shuan T workout vidoes (Love Insanity and T-25)
3) Sweets ( I have a huge sweet tooth hence #1 and #2)
4) Laughter
5) Cheap burgers and fries (refer again to #1 and #2)
6) HuluPlus, Amazon TV and NetFlix (I no longer have cable)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I should learn how to cook or not. I eat out too much sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On my couch watching TV or as of late reading. I have slowly weaned myself off of cable. I am ok with staying at home on a Friday night at this point in my life. Not looking for the next big blowout gay blast. I prefer to enjoy my weekends (If I am off) and not spend my saturday in bed recovering from a night of debauchery (Need spell check on this thing :-) ). Not that sleeping in every now and then is a bad thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love the Golden Girls and I am still semi-afraid to sleep in a completely dark room alone :-)
You should message me if
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You are down to earth, not into the gay scene, truly single, emotionally available, caring, funny, warm, athletic/attractive (ehhh, I am a guy and I see the world through my eyes), and have a level head on your shoulders. Also message me if you are not extremely busy and not the typical gay guy who thinks way too highly of himself. If you or your friends refer to you as "fabulous or girl" then we are more than likely not a match. You should realize that we are both humans and we will make mistakes from time to time. Some bigger than others:-). Wow! You made it to the end of this. I'm impressed:-)