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38 Schaumburg, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:10am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I just moved to the area. I'm using this as an avenue to meet more people preferably for long term dating/relationship or friends. Just because I am new in town, it does not mean that I want to date around. I should also add that I do not date multiple people at once. It's too time consuming and confusing for me. If you like to date multiple guys, then I may not be right for you. If I find someone early on to be with, that would be great. In all honesty, a serious meaningful relationship would be nice to have. Plus a partner in crime in a new city would be amaze balls:-)

I am sincerely at a point where I have the time and desire to share my life monogamously with someone. I would like to find another masculine guy who is in a similar situation preferably near my age (34-43 years old). I work to live and not live to work. Work life balance is paramount to me. I don't wanna be around a workaholic. I am ready to experience and share the ups and downs that life has to offer.

I would like to find a cool masculine guy (who likes to be on TOP of his game) to hang out together. Just trying to save time with previous statement:-). I would prefer that your life does not revolve around the gay scene. If you are a single dad, I'm definitely open to dating you. It shows a sign of responsibility and commitment in my opinion. If living in the burbs is a problem for you, I can understand. I hope it won't be a major deterrent. My job is out here and I don't know how to drive in the snow yet. I do not get snow days working in an Emergency Department of a hospital :-)

I am down to earth and relaxed about most things. I like working out, playing tennis, volleyball, flag football, running outside and traveling occasionally. It would be nice to find someone with similar interests. ”.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am focused mostly on relocating to Chicago at the moment. I work in healthcare as a Physician Assistant (PA) in Emergency Medicine. I work 3 12-hr shifts per week (9am to 9pm) and off 4 days a week. Work is very secondary to me. I work to live and definitely not the other way around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being myself. I am quiet but can be somewhat goofy and pretty funny once you get to know me. I have this kid inside of me that refuses to leave. I still get drawn into television when I see a cartoon showing. I used to love Scooby Doo as a kid. I still watch it when I can find it on TV. I am a huge fan of cartoons from the 80's Saturday morning. At least that's what Netflix tells me:-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile or that I look younger than my stated age in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books
1. The Velvet Rage ( its a definite life changer)
2. Game of Throne series ( I've finished all 5 books finally. Now I can start watching the series on TV)

Favorite Movies
1. The Color Purple
2. Steel Magnolias (Huge Sally Field fan. Haha. Dont laugh at me.)
3. The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

My favorite shows are Brothers and Sisters (yay Sally Field), NCIS, NCIS Los Angeles, Law and Order SVU, Revenge, True Blood, Once Upon a Time, Blue Bloods, CSI NY, Merlin, Being Human, Downton Abby, Scandal, Grimm, Scooby Doo..etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Gym/running
2) Shuan T workout vidoes (Love Insanity and T-25)
3) Sweets ( I have a huge sweet tooth hence #1 and #2)
4) Laughter
5) Cheap burgers and fries (refer again to #1 and #2)
6) HuluPlus, Amazon TV and NetFlix (I no longer have cable)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I should learn how to cook or not. I eat out too much sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I may be at work sometimes on a Friday night because of my chosen profession. However, if not, I am on my couch watching TV or as of late reading. I have slowly weaned myself off of cable. I am ok with staying at home on a Friday night at this point in my life. Not looking for the next big blowout gay blast. I prefer to enjoy my weekends (If I am off) and not spend my Saturday morning in bed recovering from a night of debauchery (Need spell check on this thing :-) ). Not that sleeping in every now and then is a bad thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love the Golden Girls and I am still semi-afraid to sleep in a completely dark room alone :-)
You should message me if
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You are down to earth, prefer to be on the TOP bunk (wink, wink), not heavily into the gay scene, truly single, emotionally available, caring, funny, warm, athletic/attractive (ehhh, I am a guy and I see the world through my eyes), and have a level head on your shoulders. Also message me if you are not extremely busy and not the typical gay guy who thinks way too highly of himself. If you or your friends refer to you as "fabulous or girl" then we are more than likely not a match. You should realize that we are both humans and we will make mistakes from time to time. Some bigger than others:-). Wow! You made it to the end of this. I'm impressed:-)