Honestly, it would be awesome to have a somewhat established relationship before I move. It's getting old using my mom as an emergency contact on forms:-). I am no longer looking to date anyone in the DC area and I am not doing so because I know that I am leaving. I know this is easier said than done, but I am sincere and have no problems committing to one guy. There's planes, Skype and FaceTime (for fellow iphone users) to help ease this temporary burden of distance. Plus for the right guy, 8-9 months of distance would be well worth it, if it would allow and lead us to building something together that could last a life time.
Speaking of committing to one guy, I do not date several people at the same time. How could I truly get to know you and vice versa if I am splitting my time between you, Tom, Dick and Harry. I find that pointless and exhausting. Plus, I am not a huge fan of dating and competing for someone's attention. I like to be settled and I find dating unsettling. I am not using Ok Cupid to give me something to do on a Tuesday night. I am looking for a guy who would make me delete this application from my iphone, ipad and computer. Speaking of app's if you have "Grindr" or any of its equivalents on your phone, DO NOT message me. I see them as an unhealthy chemical additiction that most gay men can not get rid of. I do not want the hassle and once again I do not compete for people's attention:-)
I am a simple guy original from a really small town in rural south Georgia who left and made an awesome life and career ( I am not married to my career, I would rather be married to you). I am looking for monogamy. I'm conservative and not an "anything goes" kinda guy in a relationships. I would love to meet a guy that I can introduce to my family and friends one day. I would also like to meet his family and friends if possible as well. I think this is an important aspect to keeping a relationhip grounded and it adds an extra layer of accountability in my opinion. I prefer a guy who is already settled in his career and ready to focus on "us" for a lack of better terms. A guy with Midwestern values would be awesome. I would rather just meet somwhat naturally while out and about versus reading a profile. You know immediately if there is a physical attraction and chemistry. However, given that I am not local at the moment, that would be a challenge :-)