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just_damonT

46 M Leander, TX

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:40pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
*update 7/22/14* - so I am trying out the "A-List" thing...so if you see that I visited you...well...you are seeing that on purpose! ;-)

My Self-summary is constantly changing because i never feel I can capture the true me with it. That being said...I would really like some feedback on it. The good, the bad, etc. Thank you.

Here is what I think you should know to start...and hopefully it will peak your interest enough for us to get to know each other better.

*I was born in Washington state but moved to Texas in 2001. I definitely miss the mountains, trees and snow but love the hill country of Texas. Austin in a lot of ways feels very much like the area I grew up in.
* I am looking for my "Happily Ever After". I believe in true love and
that it is out there if I keep looking. (to be clear...Happily Every After doesn't mean there could never be things to work through...it means the love that I will spend the rest of my life with)
* I am ridiculously shy. I will probably visit your profile many times
looking for just the right thing to say before I send a message to
you.
* I am not a field player. When I find someone that intrigues me, I will focus my attention on them to make them feel important.
* If you send a message to me I will reply. It seems the only polite
thing to do.
* I would love to get out and experience more of what Austin has to
offer...but I want someone to do that with.
* If I send you an initial message it will probably be awkward and lame. Sorry....opening lines just are not good to me. But if you give me a chance I think you will find I warm up nicely.
* And finally...I really am just a nice guy. I am not going to fill your box with messages if you don't respond or quit responding. After a couple read and not responded to messages I am essentially putting the ball in your court.

So...enough for you to say "Hey...maybe I should give this guy a second look?" I hope so.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time at a desk job and part time as a personal trainer in my gym. I am looking for someone to give me a reason to work less and play more.

I am comfortable in my life. I don't worry if my bills will be paid but I also don't live extravagantly.

I am always looking for balance in my life.
I’m really good at
Helping people discover the potential for what is inside them on many levels.

Taking an old favorite recipe and making it healthier.

Making you feel like you are really special in my world.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly attitude? The fact that I only have one dimple?

I think I come across as a genuinely nice guy. My friends all tell me that they don't understand how I haven't found the right woman yet because nice guys like me are hard to find. I think there are probably plenty of us out there...but we might be overshadowed by the over machismoed "bad boy".

I won't claim to be something or someone I am not. I try to keep my life pretty simple. I don't drive a flashy car or wear designer clothes. Not because I can't, but because they just are not me.

One of my matches told me I look like my pictures. Hopefully that is a good thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Arts - I love live theatre, musicals, concerts, comedy...anything where the outcome can not be changed with editing. If mistakes happen it has to be incorporated. I don't really care to attend these by myself though, so I haven't been to many as of late. Want to join me?

Books - I like biography, special interest, science fiction, mystery, horror....etc. Currently I am reading a book called The Face Never Lies by Michio Kushi.

Movies - mostly older stuff from the 60's and 70's, romantic comedies, action (ok...so the 12 year old boy in me LOVES the super hero movies but if they arent your thing I can do them ob my own) documentaries, science fiction...etc. I will also pull out on occasion the OLD Disney movies we would see on a Sunday night when we were kids like The Computer Wore Tennis Shoes or Now You See Him Now You Don't. I also enjoy modern movies like D'jango, Lincoln, Brides Maids, etc...

Television - I get sucked into DIY shows and singing competitions. I am a big Doctor Who fan, Big Bang Theory

Podcasts - I know this isn't a category here, but I do spend a lot of time listening to a wide variety of podcasts: Dudley & Bob, The Nerdist, Things You Missed in History Class, Doug Loves Movies, and Extreme Health Radio are just a few that go through my rotation.

Music - pretty much anything. I just got the new album by Travis "Where You Stand" yesterday and it has been playing pretty much constantly since. If you know who Travis are then you get brownie points! I also just bought the new Matt The Electrician album so I like the local indie/folk sound. But I also will listen to rock (classic and modern), hip hop, rap (OG more so than the newer stuff), country (again prefer the OG like Waylon and Willie, but ok with the modern stuff), pop, classical, jazz, reggae, show tunes, etc, etc etc...

Food - I love most all kinds of food except mushrooms. A GOOD burger, Italian, Asian, Mexican are always great options.
The six things I could never do without
1.) my family and friends
2.) time
3.) curiosity
4.) being healthy (clean food, water and exercise)
5.) monkeys (they make me laugh)
6.) you?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why am I sitting home on a Saturday night when I see so many of the profiles I have favorited are showing as online? What are we doing wrong here people?

Finding new ways to start a conversation on OKCupid without it sounding like a pickup line in a bar. Who knew internet dating could be just as nerve wracking as "real life" dating.

Why doesn't OKCupid have a one click "wink" option? I would chicken out on first contact a lot less if there were.

And do these percentages really mean anything on here?

is "STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to..." really that difficult?
On a typical Friday night I am
I usually have a couple of clients and then relaxing at home or going out to a movie. Then I will look at my OKC profile and think "You really need to find someone to take better pictures of you. Something classy in black and white. Maybe sitting in a bathtub of money."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a big nerd. I love goofy superhero movies and Doctor Who on the BBC. Oh...and I can't dance. That doesn't mean I won't try, but you have to be willing to put up with a little embarrassment if you want me to dance with you. I am willing to try to get better though!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
*You enjoy being active but also enjoy a nice snuggle on the couch.
*You live within an hour of me. I want to spend my time WITH you, not making you wait for me to get TO you
*You like dogs AND cats (I have three cats and a dog that thinks he is a cat).
*You understand that I may not be perfect, but I may be perfect for you.
*You know what a TARDIS is. (not a requirement, but a bonus)
*You know how to keep houseplants alive. (again...not a requirement, but it would sure be nice to have some green plants in my house that aren't made of plastic)
*You don't foresee an immediate move from the area (I plan on being here for a long time...so you kind of need to have the same thought).
*And finally...yes...I believe in happily ever after. And that is what I am looking for. The right person is out there. Hopefully if you hear from me, or you like what you have read, you will give us an opportunity to explore that possibility together.

What do you have to lose?