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just_damonT

47 Cedar Park, TX Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:00am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My Self-summary is constantly changing because I never feel I can capture the true me with it. The true me takes some time. The true me is worth the wait.

Here is what I think you should know to start and hopefully it will peak your interest enough for us to get to know each other better.

*I was born in Washington state but moved to Texas in 2001. I definitely miss the mountains, trees and snow but love the hill country of Texas. Austin in a lot of ways feels very much like the area I grew up in.

* I am looking for my "Happily Ever After". I believe in true love and that it is out there if I keep looking. To be clear Happily Every After doesn't mean there could never be things to work through. It means the love that I will spend the rest of my life with. After all, what rom-com doesn't have a break up do to a misunderstanding in the third act? The key is to be willing to move into the fourth act and give love another chance.

* I am not comfortable with sport dating. When I find someone that intrigues me, I will focus my attention on them to make them feel important. So if we have gone out and I feel like there is a chance that something may grow given enough time I will likely not see anyone else while that is being explored.

* I am looking for a partner to discover Austin with, go to theatre with, exercise with, cook with, etc.... (I think you get the point)

* I love to people watch. I find how people act in group situations to be quite fascinating. That being said I enjoy going to things like festivals, cons and concerts as much for the event as the people.

* If I send you an initial message it will probably be awkward and lame. Sorry but opening lines just are not good to me. If you give me a chance I think you will find I warm up nicely.

* I only communicate with one person at a time in this whole internet dating thing. If I am going to find my happy ending I need to be able to devote my full attention to the person I am interested in.

* I scored INFP on the personality test. Seems pretty accurate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work full time at a desk job and part time at my gym helping people achieve their fitness goals. I am looking for someone to give me a reason to work less and play more.

I am always looking for balance in my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people discover the potential for what is inside them on many levels.

Taking an old favorite recipe and making it healthier.

Making you feel like you are really special in my world.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really know. I think on here they notice that I look like my pictures. That apparently isn't always so common from what I have been told.

I think I come across as a genuinely nice guy. My friends all tell me that they don't understand how I haven't found the right woman yet because nice guys like me are hard to find.

I won't claim to be something or someone I am not. I try to keep my life pretty simple. I don't drive a flashy car or wear designer clothes. Not because I can't, but because they just are not me.

I am a great listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Arts - I love live theatre, musicals, concerts, comedy. Anything where the outcome can not be changed with editing. If mistakes happen it has to be incorporated. I don't really care to attend these by myself though, so I haven't been to many as of late. Want to join me?

Books - I like biography, special interest, science fiction, mystery, horror etc. Currently I am reading a book called
Travels With Charlie: A Modern Search for America by Sol Smith. It is kind of a modern redo of one of my all-time favorite books by John Steinbeck called Travels With Charlie: In Search of America.

Movies - mostly older stuff from the 60's and 70's, romantic comedies, action (OK. So the 12 year old boy in me LOVES the super hero movies but if they arent your thing I can do them on my own) documentaries, science fiction, etc. I will also, on occasion, pull out the OLD Disney movies we would see on a Sunday nights when we were kids. Stuff like The Computer Wore Tennis Shoes or Now You See Him Now You Don't. I also enjoy modern movies like D'jango, Lincoln, Brides Maids, etc.

Television - I get sucked into DIY shows. I am a big Doctor Who fan, Big Bang Theory and any of the ones that fall into action/adventure.

Podcasts - I know this isn't a category here, but I do spend a lot of time listening to a wide variety of podcasts: Dudley & Bob, The Nerdist, Things You Missed in History Class, Doug Loves Movies, and Extreme Health Radio are just a few that go through my rotation.

Music - pretty much anything. I like the local indie/folk sound. But I also will listen to rock (classic and modern), hip hop, rap (OG more so than the newer stuff), country (again prefer the OG like Waylon and Willie, but ok with the modern stuff), pop, classical, jazz, reggae, show tunes, etc, etc etc

Food - I love most all kinds of food except mushrooms. A GOOD burger, Italian, Asian, Mexican are always great options.

I also just discovered this new thing called sushi. It can be kind of hard to find, but if you do try it. It is amazing! I feel like a food pioneer. (I hope you enjoy a healthy sense of sarcasm)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends and Family
2. My animals
3. I guess an internet connection so I can be on OKC
4. Hope
5. Love
6. You
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When will I find that person that I can't get off my mind? The one who is my last thought before I go to sleep and my first thought when I wake up? The one who a random song lyric or visual cue will immediately bring them to my mind. That is what I am looking for.

Finding new ways to start a conversation on OKCupid without it sounding like a pickup line in a bar. Who knew internet dating could be just as nerve wracking as "real life" dating.

The difference between men and women on OKC...As a guy we are challenged to come up with a cleaver opening to chat your attention. As a woman you just have to say "Hi" :-)

And do these percentages really mean anything on here?

is "STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to..." really that difficult?

Why does OKC suggest women to me whose age preferences top out a decade younger than me? But also....do I even bother sending someone a message when I am a couple years older than their top end?

Does the chat thing work? I have never tried it. If you want to hit me up for a chat to see how we click feel free!

Today, while grocery shopping, it dawned on me how many of the simple, day to day things I miss about being in a relationship. Walking through the grocery store trying to sneak oreos into the cart. Having someone to whom the first thing I say in the morning is "I love you" and it is also the last thing I say at night.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It seems as late most Friday nights I am home. Let's change that shall we?

I usually have a couple of clients and then relaxing at home or going out to a movie. Then I will look at my OKC profile and think "You really need to find someone to take better pictures of you. Something classy in black and white. Maybe sitting in a bathtub of money."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't dance. But like with most things, if it is important to you I am more than willing to try and learn.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You enjoy being active but also enjoy a nice snuggle on the couch.
*You live within an hour of me. I want to spend my time WITH you, not making you wait for me to get TO you
*You don't smoke. Sorry. That is a deal breaker for me.
*You like dogs AND cats (I have three cats and a dog that thinks he is a cat).
*You understand that I may not be perfect, but I may be perfect for you.
*You know what a TARDIS is. (not a requirement, but a bonus)
*You know how to keep houseplants alive. (again, not a requirement, but it would sure be nice to have some green plants in my house that aren't made of plastic)
*You don't foresee an immediate move from the area (I plan on being here for a long time so you kind of need to have the same thought).
*And finally, yes I believe in happily ever after. And that is what I am looking for. The right person is out there. Hopefully if you hear from me, or you like what you have read, you will give us an opportunity to explore that possibility together.

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