(I do have pics I'm willing to share privately. They aren't public for discretionary purposes (to keep my identity safe) - the rest of the world tends to frown on this sort of thing!)
Okay - apparently this isn't obvious enough...so here goes. I'm not looking for purely sex. If that's all I wanted, I'd go to a bar and pick someone up. I'm looking for a true friend; a connection...somebody to hang out with, to cuddle with, to watch movies with, and (yes, EVENTUALLY) to be intimate with.