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26 F Allston, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 29
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
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Graduated from university
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Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I grew up in Indiana, and moved to Massachusetts two years ago. I've spent the last couple years changing, and growing, and learning how to be myself. I've also been learning how to be by myself, and be happy on my own, and moving at my own speed through life.

I was an AmeriCorps member for the past two years, and I'm ready to move on to do something different. I'll be starting Grad School in the fall, and working at the College and teaching at a daycare. I'm moving from Lowell to Boston in a couple weeks.

So big changes are happening. What are the things about me that will stay the same?

I'm an INFJ, and it's fairly obvious. I'm introverted, compassionate, and depend on my intuition far too often. It takes me a little while to process how something feels (and if I repeat "Okay" over and over, just give me a moment until I figure out what it is that is making me feel uncomfortable).

When you meet me, you will probably notice that in unfamiliar settings I will be quiet and not speak much. Never fear, it does not mean that I don't like you, it just means that I'm trying to take in the setting and assimilate what I know with what I'm observing.

I care a lot about the people that I let into my life, and if you're counted among one of my friends, you have to know that you hold a special place in my heart. That being said, I take transgressions very seriously, and it can be hard for me to count myself your friend for some time after I've felt hurt.

I'm looking for a serious relationship, but I'm also in want of lifelong friendships.
What I’m doing with my life
I work with young children, go to school, and write a lot. I am currently traveling for a little while, but will be back within the month.
I’m really good at
reading people and their moods, helping others with situations that they find troubling, giving hugs, and sharing love. I'm a good cook, I'm a good crafter (I do a lot of crafts when I start to feel bored), and I'm really good at comforting babies who can't help but cry.

If there were another section about things I'm terrible at, I would say that I'm terrible at singing, taking my own advice, and taking care of unwanted pests in the home. (Especially mice. I nearly fainted once and had to call the building manager to come take care of it while I was standing on top of my couch in my pajamas.)
The first things people usually notice about me
My accent, my height, and my hair. Yes, I know I sound like I'm from the south, and I'm aware that I can't reach the top of the fridge. No, it's not a perm; it's real.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading. I've read a lot of books in the last year, and I'm always working on something new (or five or six new things). I'm currently reading Stephen King's "11/22/63", Shakespeare's "King Lear", and Christian G. Appy's "Patriots: The Vietnam War Remembered from All Sides".

I've been watching a lot of documentaries lately, everything from the paranormal to oppression in India. I also tend to go to the movie theater when I'm feeling stressed out. Fortunately, that means that I've seen quite a few new movies this year.

My favorite shows are the Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Supernatural, and Sherlock. I also watch a lot of shows like American Pickers, and Hoarders ("One makes me feel bad about hoarding, and the other makes me feel good about it.")

I'm most into mellow indie-rock bands, 90's alternative, and brit rock. I enjoy hearing new (to me) music, and I've just started listening to this podcast by KEXP called Music that Matters. Great podcast.
The six things I could never do without
1. Hugs. Humans need 8 hugs a day to feel happy and secure.
2. Planner. I have a pretty busy schedule, so I need to keep organized.
3. The Armadillo in my living room. I tried to give him away, but he made his way back to me.
4. Socks. Once it starts to get chilly, my feet freeze.
5. Netflix and Hulu. I tend to binge watch tv.
6. Blankets. Because they're the only things that keep you safe at night.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Depending on the day: what I would do in the event of a zombie apocalypse (and what if my life was like a zombie apocalypse... "man, walking in this mall sure was a bad idea"), cute things, cute people, and random trivia.
On a typical Friday night I am
half trying to find something to do, and half trying to get out of doing anything. It really depends on the day that I've had, and the way that I'm feeling about my life at the moment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm learning to play the concertina (a tiny accordion), and I've almost mastered "Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star" in just a couple of days. I'm kind of proud. I have no music ability.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you would like to speak with me. I try to message first occasionally, but sometimes I am not very outgoing and won't message first.

you know how to play the concertina, or would like to learn how to play the concertina with me. I want to learn this!