Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Basically, I'm a very unique person of exceptional character -
honest, ethical, unpretentious, loving and compassionate. I believe
my family and friends would also say of me that I am kind,
considerate, very dependable and loyal.
I am also an HSP (Highly Sensitive Person; see the writings of
Elaine Aron), which doesn't mean that I'm fragile or easily
offended. In a nutshell, it means that I tend to feel/sense things
with more intensity than most folks and I am more keenly aware of
subtleties in my environment. (I would love to meet a man who is
also an HSP or understands and appreciates what this means.)
p.s. Take the bar graph under the "Personality" tab with a grain of
salt. Some of them are accurate, but the others are laughable. I
don't know how they came up with that graph. :oP And some of the
questions that are asked under the "Questions" tab are incredibly
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I strive to create harmony in all aspects of my life, beginning
with a simple, natural, peaceful way of being and living. I'm
grateful for every day that I have to keep exploring and
experiencing all that this life has to offer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, my sons would say that I have been a great mother - raising
them as a single parent, without the support or involvement of a
father - they have both become fine men of admirable character. I'm
good at and enjoy most things domestic, including cooking,
stitchery/sewing, gardening. I'm an excellent writer,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am cheerful and friendly, so I would say people first notice my
smile since I use it often! But, because I am an introvert, people
sometimes mistake me for being aloof. (It's just that I tend to
observe others before 'warming up' to those with whom I feel most
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh, my goodness ... this one is impossible to answer in
Books? non-fiction; those that expand my mind
Movies? most genres, but NOT violence, horror or porn
Shows? magic, comedy, live theatre; musicals are not high on the
list, but tolerable
Music? most genres; but do not like anything that is 'jarring' to
the senses, so I don't care for most hard rock, rap or
Food? I follow a whole food, plant based diet - fruits, veggies,
nuts/seeds, beans/legumes, and a few grains. NO meat, dairy, eggs
and/or processed, pre-packaged foods - but I am flexible, NOT
fanatical about this! I thoroughly enjoy preparing flavorful food,
including various ethnic dishes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's see if I can come up with six ...
1) the basics, of course: food, water, air
2) the love and companionship of family, friends and animals
5) a quiet place of solace
6) faith in something greater than myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Although I truly am more of a 'home body', I enjoy a night out from
time to time, as well. However, I have no typical Friday nights ...
or any other day/night, for that matter. My life is a journey and
each day can lead me on a new and interesting path. I like to stay
open to the possibilities!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty open about most things. I live by the addage:
Ask me anything you want. I will either tell you the truth or I
will tell you it is none of your business ... but I won't lie to
You should message me if
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anything I have said has sparked your interest and you are sincere
about the possibility of developing an enduring, committed
relationship based on mutual love and respect, with lots of humor,
tender affection, and passionate intimacy.
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