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justgothere77

35 / F / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 3:57am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Political / Government
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
UPDATE! 6/8/13- Hi guys! I'm spending the summer traveling and studying in Europe so won't be engaging much here. If you're up for it, get in touch in mid August. Enjoy the summer!
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I value courage more than anything else. Without courage, you miss out on a lot.

I try to write a haiku a day.

I'm proud to be one part Milwaukee and one part San Francisco.

All of my favorite people ask good questions of themselves and others. I think it’s a pretty hot quality.

I've done tsunami recovery work in Thailand, studied revolutionaries in Guatemala, worked on a fruit stand in Australia, trained women activists in Haiti, danced in the streets of Mumbai during Holi, and yet, I still love being at home in SF.

I bike everywhere and try to go hiking nearly every weekend. Roaming around our amazing city makes me smile.

I've spent 3 hours at a single museum exhibit because it was that good. I was one of the first employees on Barack Obama's first presidential campaign. One time I joined a parade because they looked like they were having so much fun; I was six but it could have been six days ago.

I love great art in all forms.
What I’m doing with my life
Crafting it to invite impact, community, and inspiration while granting unexpected diversions the power to surprise me.

Specifically- running my own political consulting and organizing firm which I started a year ago, teaching a class on organizing to graduate students, finishing a Master's in Literature and Creative Writing, enjoying the greatest group of friends and close family you can imagine.
I’m really good at
showing affection and gratitude, getting people excited about organizing and creating change, hugs and kisses, simple math, taking risks for the right reasons, embracing challenge, singing Ice, Ice, Baby from memory at a ridiculously fast speed
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Restraint is hard here.

Books- Good books really get me going, Ulysses, You Are Not a Stranger Here, The Brothers Karamazov, Miranda July, The Year of Magical Thinking (anything by Joan Didion really), Alice Munro, Letters to a Young Poet, Blindness, Shantaram (my friend wrote it!), The House on Mango Street, Cheryl Strayed/Sugar, Chekhov, The Dot and the Line, Freedom

Music- Mountain Goats, Gill Scott Heron, Beck, Stevie Wonder, Robert Johnson, Silvio Rodriguez, Alexi Murdoch, Explosions in the Sky, the Beatles, Leonard Cohen

Movies- The Sweet Hereafter, The Ice Storm, American Movie, The Breakfast Club, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, E.T., The Graduate, Amelie

Shows- Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Six Feet Under, Chopped

Food- Special soft spots for fresh seafood, raspberries, a good sauce on almost anything, Indian and Thai food, my mom's homemade popcorn, yummy cheeses and red wine
The six things I could never do without
engaging conversations, words that fit together well, the extraordinary people I know, democracy, sunshine, my passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to get it all done with enough time to just let it all soak in
On a typical Friday night I am
Connecting with people I adore. Eating and drinking well. Enjoying art. Outside or inside.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I already told you about Ice, Ice, Baby...
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you think curiosity and kindness really matter.

you have a sense of wonder about you.

you're in a good/relatively good place in your life and open to a real connection.

you're up for meeting in person soon if we're interested (just makes more sense to me than extended message convos...).