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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Five years ago, I was at a crossroads.

I was born and raised in metro Milwaukee. During college I spent summers working as a teacher in the inner city, and after graduating I joined Teach for America, moved to Philadelphia and began teaching English. My first year was a disaster, but after a long summer of recovery I went back into the classroom and had a much better second year and thought I had found my home. In December 2009 I was asked to take over a ministry that immerses college students in Milwaukee. After a month of wrestling with what to do, I finally said yes and moved back later in 2010.

Over the last five years I fell in love - with the city. I discovered my new favorite coffee roaster, the Bay View lakefront, and so many good restaurants. At the same time a lot of the details I loved about growing up here are still true, like cheering for the Brewers and suffering accordingly. It’s a nice blend of exciting change and stability.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run urban immersion trips for college students in Milwaukee, and I get to partner with some pretty cool churches and ministries. I recently started blogging, and have rediscovered how much I love writing. Now that my nephew has turned four and is pretty interactive, I really enjoy spending time with him. My proudest uncle moment from the last year was building him a Lego airplane that he still plays with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can cook and am particularly adept at the “what is left in the fridge and freezer” variety. My ENFJ superpowers are listening, asking questions and empathizing, and I mostly use them for good. I also really enjoy leading and visioncasting. It is cool lead people to make changes in their life and in their groups.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, it's my blue eyes or my beard. After we actually talk my outgoing and warm personality really begins to shine through, along with my capacity to ask a thousand questions. Oh, and passion. Lots of passion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books – I like to read a lot. My favorite is N.T. Wright, but recently I have red a lot about Race in America. The best book this year has been Isabel Wilkerson's "The Warmth of Other Suns." Should be required reading for all Americans.

Movies - I'm gonna go with a little known sleeper here - About Time. Seriously moving movie.

TV – I had strep throat last year and binged on Parenthood. It’s now on the list. I also really enjoy Parks and Recreation, Brooklyn 99, Friday Night Lights and New Girl. I will always have a sweet spot for The Office seasons 2-4, and HIMYM is dead to me because of the finale.

I really enjoy a weird combination of folk (Bon Iver, Mumford and Lumineers, etc.) and worship music. Apparently David Crowder is my platonic musical ideal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee.
2. My Kindle.
3. My friends – They balance me out and make me a better person.
4. My family – They didn’t make the list the last time I filled this out. Progress.
5. Brewers Baseball - because nothing has taught me more about longsuffering and unrequited love than twenty some years of cheering for them.
6. My relationship with God – I hope that it informs everything about who I am and what I do, personally and professionally.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about topics like religion, race and ethnicity, economics, and politics because I think they matter a lot, especially in being a witness to the hope that we have. I want to be a part of the conversations that are going on within Christianity and within the city about them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to spend my nights with friends (talking, playing board games) or at home reading or watching a movie. I don't enjoy clubs but I do enjoy a good bar with good friends or going swing dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like Pitch Perfect. But not Pitch Perfect 2. Ugh.