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42 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:23pm
Black, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I enjoy life in many ways. I love my job as a lighting programmer and I tend to travel a lot for work and pleasure. I enjoy fine dining with friends and being active is high on my daily todo list as well. I am in a good place in my life but am always looking for more. I also love to cook, there is nothing more satisfying then making a great meal at home. (And mostly much healthier too)
I have found a nice balance between work and play and would like to find someone who has found this magic place as well. (It took a lot of hard work to get here)
What I’m doing with my life
I work in entertainment as a Lighting Director/Moving Light Programer. which means I Program automated Lighting for concerts, TV shows, movies, commercials and events as well. When I'm not working I travel to hot and cold places as much as possible. I enjoy vacations that require moving about mostly, hiking, snowboarding, walking around discovering a new place and feeling like I owned it by the time I leave. Most recently went to London for the first time and loved being able to grab a bike and ride around but also had a fun time learning the tube. (The Tate was pretty cool as well) but am happy to say I can get around most any city comfortably as long as I have a map. I've only been to a handful of places but the world is a big place and I would like to see much more of it (I've been to Barcelona, Berlin, Jakarta and Bali in Indonesia, Hong Kong briefly in addition to a ton of places in the States).
I’m really good at
lots of things, but eat, drink and be merry are my favorite
The first things people usually notice about me
I'll let you find out for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are to many great things in the world to enjoy to have a ton of favorites. but in no particular order......

Jazz, Disco, Classics, Old school Hip Hop, Rock, House, Deep Soulful House, Afro Beat, Middle Eastern and some Pop. (I really like music it has always been a driving force in my life.)
Really end up reading to many tech manual these days but here are a few books I like. Lowlife, On the real side, The Alchemist, Down these mean streets, Like Water for Chocolate, 722 Miles, also read a few political science journeys from time to time and do a lot of online reading these days. (Magazines, newspaper etc)
Blue RIbbon Sushi Brooklyn used to be my Favorite, the new one in the LES is great but not the same, A bunch of places in China Town, Italian, Salads. I love finding new places to eat yummy food!
The six things I could never do without
Good Food
Bella (my Cat)
Friends & Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately...... what to eat as I have had a tremendous food awakening over the past few years. in addition to some work projects and where to travel to next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out for dinner and drinks with friends or cooking something yummy, maybe hanging at my local or heading upstate for some weekend fun. Enjoying calmer evenings these days.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know what you like and what you don't like
You know what you can and can't do and are looking to be honest about these things with yourself and with me.
You enjoy being uncomfortable once in a while because it means your learning or doing something new.
You want me to like you for who you are and not who you think I want you to be.
You understand that you will like to do some thing's I don't like and I some things that you don't like and are OK that we do these things apart or sometimes humor each other and do them together because we have figured out that being together is more important than what we're doing and actually enjoy each others company.
You are not looking for someone to make you happy but someone to be happy with.
You have your shit together
You are not just looking to play games but want to meet someone who you could possibly spend the rest of your life with.
You really like to laugh.