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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Black, White
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Indonesian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I enjoy life in many ways. I love my job as a lighting programmer and I tend to travel a lot for work and pleasure. I enjoy fine dining with friends and being active is high on my daily todo list as well. I am in a good place in my life but am always looking for more. I also love to cook, there is nothing more satisfying then making a great meal at home. (And mostly much healthier too)
I have found a nice balance between work and play and would like to find someone who has found this magic place as well. (It took a lot of hard work to get here)
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a Lighting Director/Moving Light Programer. I Program automated Lighting for concerts, TV shows, movies, commercials and events as well. When I'm not working I travel as much as possible. I enjoy vacations that require moving about mostly, hiking, snowboarding, walking around discovering new places. I've been to a handful of places but the world is big and I would like to see much more of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things, but eat, drink and be merry are my favorite.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are to many great things in the world to enjoy to have a ton of favorites. but in no particular order......

Jazz, Disco, Classics, Old school Hip Hop, Rock, House, Deep Soulful House, Afro Beat, Middle Eastern and some Pop. (I really like music it has always been a driving force in my life.)
Really end up reading to many tech manual these days but here are a few books I like. Lowlife, On the real side, The Alchemist, Down these mean streets, Like Water for Chocolate, 722 Miles, also read a few political science journeys from time to time and do a lot of online reading these days. (Magazines, newspaper etc)
Blue RIbbon Sushi Brooklyn used to be my Favorite, the new one in the LES is great but not the same, A bunch of places in China Town, Italian, Salads. I love finding new places to eat yummy food!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Food
Bella (my Cat)
Friends & Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately...... what to make with my CSA share in addition to some work projects and where to travel to next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out for dinner and drinks with friends or cooking something yummy at home, playing pool or hanging at my local, or sometimes heading upstate for some weekend fun.
You should message me if
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You have your shit together
You know what you like and what you don't like
You want me to like you for who you are and not who you think I want you to be.
You are not looking for someone to make you happy but someone to be happy with.
You have your shit together

You really like to laugh.