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justinthegrand

25 M Grand Rapids, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:50pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Khmer (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm probably the most boring person you'll ever meet, or the most awesome. It's usually one of those two. :)

I'm a twentysomething figuring out my life. I have a steady life, which I constantly want to shake up. I don't/never have drank or smoked, and I'm pretty content with that. Nothing too against it, but my beverages of choice is coffee or tea, typically iced.

College Graduate, Live on my own, Have my own ride, and a gym membership that needs to get used way more. I'm pretty average, and I'd like to meet someone that's somewhat similar. I'm not into the stereotypical gay scene, I have like 2 or 3 gay friends, and again, I'm more than okay with that.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone to build a life together with, cause it's more fun that way. I want kids in the future and like one of those bush fences with a with one of those entry way things. and maybe a dog.

But in all honesty, I'm looking for someone that I can be comfortable and open around. Someone that's strong enough to challenge me and call me out if needed, but also someone that's understanding enough to know that I need some alone time, and doesn't get offended. I'm looking for true love, not fairy tale love. The kind that if you fight, you fight, but you don't ever go to bed angry with each other. The kind of love that you wake up every day and that's all you need. The kind where I need him as much as he needs me. I'm not gonna lie, I have my share of hesitations and bad experiences, but I'd like to believe I haven't given up all hope yet on my him of the future. It's gonna take a lot of time for me to open up, but if it's true love, we'll both be okay with that.

ok, sappy mode over.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building a career, while also trying to make sure my career isn't my entire life. I like to take a step back and just connect with the world around me, reflecting on a bunch of things, all while drinking excessive amounts of iced teas and coffees.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
quite a few things and I also really suck at others.

I like to think of myself as balanced!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
honestly... i think it's my presence.

People always seem to recognize me walking around or at some random event. I get tons of "I've seen you before at..." or "Oh yeah! I've seen you walking downtown before."

I must be really unobservant or I stick out like a sore thumb.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
movie: life as a house

show: buffy the vampire slayer (before vamps were the cool new thing)

food: varies

book: good question...

One of my favorite songs (among many) is Somewhere Only We Know by Keane. I love The Fray, Sara Bareilles, and Bastille just to name a few bands/singers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd like to think there are more than six... but honestly, if I had to list, I wouldn't know where to begin.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
figuring out life.

my brain is constantly in overdrive. future, past. decisions made and not made, flights of fancy, and where I want to end up. It's way too distracting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
totally an old man.

Really depends on my mood. I am more than content with staying in cooking a meal with candles lit and listening to my Ron Pope pandora station.

Other times, going out, playing board games, checking out events, snuggling. Spectrum is wide!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I have an OKCupid account!
You should message me if
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you're the type to make the first move!