Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe that connection with others is the essence of life. And
for me connection with a woman has an extra richness. The quality
of our lives is determined by the quality of our relationships,
with our selves, the planet and our friends, children &
I have been separated, divorced and married, loved and hurt, known
the sadness of loss, and the joy of coming together. All that has
left me a bit scarred, but so far in my life I have risked much and
am willing to start again. In fact I am excited at the
Sometimes I remember we are all stars and at some level know what
we are doing
I don’t have a lot of money at the moment but consider that I live
well, even in some luxury without excess.
I like television, mainly films; like to cook and bake, beer and
wine: have recently taken up smoking again (not a lot) after 6
years of being a non smoker, and will certainly stop again soon.
Not quite ready to make the effort yet. I love to read, mainly
fiction, am tactile; love cuddling and sensuality. play pool
occasionally, love groups and parties with like minded people -
even with those wiith other minds. I play chess reasonably well,
have studied psychotherapy part time, looking towards
accreditation. I love nature and play with wood as a woodturner,
making and occasionally selling pieces I love.
I like all kinds of things, people the most. I am a warm, tactile,
loving man, capable of intimacy and emotionally mature. Soft with a
solid centre; loving life, truthful, creative and practical.
Looking for a life partner and willing to have some fun on the way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Semi retired I am busy with finishing my training as a counsellor
psychotherapist, volunteering and playing music – flute by ear–
mainly at blues jams and welcome new opportunities to play. I am a
Trustee of a small charity, producing workshops in love, intimacy
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing, cooking, loving, stroking, listening, talking, trusting
my intuition. Sussing things out, woodturning, chess, watching
television - mostly films and comedy, reading, starting, driving,
psychotherapy, not therapising my friends.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. Some wear and tear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fantasy, Ian M Banks, Terry Pratchett, Historical novels -
Also Lord of the rings. Inception. Thrillers, spy stuff - Le
The Bourne films
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Touch, good food, love, communities, laptop, music, people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
women, and a committed relationship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night. Tuesdays I am often found jamming
at a Blues Jam in central London.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wait till you meet me. Stroke me and I will tell you everything!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are reasonably slim and attractive. Warm with hot bits. loving
and fun. Maybe done some therapy or growth work.
Who are you looking for?
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