justmelexi
51 Windsor, Ontario, CA
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My self-summary
About me:

I am open and honest, very affectionate, and have a fantastic sense of humour. I have a tendency to over think things. My need to please is like a need for air.
I am brave enough to be honest even when it doesn't feel good.
If you earn my trust I can open up like a flower to you, even down to the darkest layers. That darkness depicts raw creativity, true empathy, compassion, understanding and appreciation of others that are perfectly flawed just like me.

What I’m looking for now:

I am seeking a partner who is willing to take the time to really know me, and can accept all of me; One who is willing to let me know him, and to believe that I am genuine in my acceptance. I am looking for the kind of connection that can lead to an unbreakable bond. The kind of bond that makes me want to give all I have to give, and makes me want to strive to be better.

I also need a man who says what he means, and means what he says. I can’t deal with always trying to find the true meaning in every little thing. I am very sensitive and a neurotic over thinker, believe me when I say there is no scenario worse than the ones I can come up with in my own head. Clear communication and expectations go a long way. That being said, I talk a lot (mostly too much); especially when I am nervous I babble on thinking it is my sole responsibility to fill the dead air, but that doesn’t mean I communicate well. I tend to need help with sorting out my thoughts, especially when I’m emotional. It is clear in my head what I want or need to say, but it comes out more often than not…Not what I meant. I am the queen of afterthought. Journaling has proven a good tool for me in the past, to process and organize my thoughts, and then to later open a dialogue.

I am looking for one special person to share my life with, and to explore all things openly together.

I have a thing for bald men, but hair is not a deal breaker...
Bad breath and smoking however, ARE deal breakers.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a career that I love.
I’m really good at
My job, giving massages, whistling, writing, being creative, making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
My green hypnotic eyes that should you stare at them too long or look into them too deeply, they will swallow your heart, your soul, and your vitality, leaving you feeling compelled to own me.

...and that I sometimes exaggerate a little... wink
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Anne Rice, Sasha White, Eden Bradley, Laura Reese, Pauline Réage (Anne Desclos)... and me

Movies: Pay it Forward, Secretary, Mozhart and the Whale, Bucket List, The Rocky Horror Picture Show

TV shows: The Big Bang Theory, Grey’s Anatomy, StarTrek reruns, The Walking Dead, and Criminal Minds

Music: Pretty much all of it from Gershwin to Guns 'n Roses... especially Jazz, or world fusion, classic rock/folk, Disco/Funk, Blues

Food: Sushi, Seafood, Thai, pretty much anything ethnic (asian, indian, arabic, greek, polish...) I like trying new things
The six things I could never do without
Love
Trust
Connection
Communication
Friends
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have ADHD, I spent a lot of time thinking about the fact I am thinking too damned much!
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing or doing something fun with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Reiterates I really, really, really, like bald men, and for no reason I can explain, I very much dislike full beards on men (personal preference, no offence intended to anyone).
You should message me if
You are: Honest, Single/Available, Seriously looking for a partner, (preferrably have some experience with D/s, on the left of the slash), Confident, Grounded, Secure, Modest, Approachable, Have a great sense of humour, Fun, Open, Kind, Intelligent, Understands the needs of a woman, Patient, Appreciative, Accepting, Understanding, Loving, Compassionate, Creative, Communicative.
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