Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am open and honest, very affectionate, and have a fantastic sense
of humour. I have a tendency to over think things. My need to
please is like a need for air.
I am brave enough to be honest even when it doesn't feel
If you earn my trust I can open up like a flower to you, even down
to the darkest layers. That darkness depicts raw creativity, true
empathy, compassion, understanding and appreciation of others that
are perfectly flawed just like me.
What I’m looking for now:
I am seeking a partner who is willing to take the time to really
know me, and can accept all of me; One who is willing to let me
know him, and to believe that I am genuine in my acceptance. I am
looking for the kind of connection that can lead to an unbreakable
bond. The kind of bond that makes me want to give all I have to
give, and makes me want to strive to be better.
I also need a man who says what he means, and means what he says. I
can’t deal with always trying to find the true meaning in every
little thing. I am very sensitive and a neurotic over thinker,
believe me when I say there is no scenario worse than the ones I
can come up with in my own head. Clear communication and
expectations go a long way. That being said, I talk a lot (mostly
too much); especially when I am nervous I babble on thinking it is
my sole responsibility to fill the dead air, but that doesn’t mean
I communicate well. I tend to need help with sorting out my
thoughts, especially when I’m emotional. It is clear in my head
what I want or need to say, but it comes out more often than
not…Not what I meant. I am the queen of afterthought. Journaling
has proven a good tool for me in the past, to process and organize
my thoughts, and then to later open a dialogue.
I am looking for one special person to share my life with, and to
explore all things openly together.
I have a thing for bald men, but hair is not a deal
Bad breath and smoking however, ARE deal breakers.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a career that I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, cooking, singing, writing, being creative, making people
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My green hypnotic eyes that should you stare at them too long or
look into them too deeply, they will swallow your heart, your soul,
and your vitality, leaving you feeling compelled to own me.
...and that I sometimes exaggerate a little... wink
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Anne Rice, Sasha White, Eden Bradley, Laura Reese, Pauline
Réage (Anne Desclos)... and me
Movies: Pay it Forward, Secretary, Mozhart and the Whale, Bucket
List, The Rocky Horror Picture Show
TV shows: Orange is the New Black, Wentworth, Grey’s Anatomy, and
Music: Pretty much all of it from Gershwin to Guns 'n Roses...
especially Jazz, or world fusion, classic rock/folk, Disco/Funk,
Food: Sushi, Seafood, Thai, pretty much anything ethnic (asian,
indian, arabic, greek, polish...) I like trying new things
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have ADHD, I spent a lot of time thinking about the fact I am
thinking too damned much!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing or doing something fun with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Reiterates I really, really, really, like bald men, and for no
reason I can explain, I very much dislike full beards on men
(personal preference, no offence intended to anyone).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are: Honest, Single/Available, Seriously looking for a partner,
(preferrably have some experience with D/s), Confident, Grounded,
Secure, Modest, Approachable, Have a great sense of humour, Fun,
Open, Kind, Intelligent, Understands the needs of a woman, Patient,
Appreciative, Accepting, Understanding, Loving, Compassionate,
Who are you looking for?
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