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56 M Los Angeles, CA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I was told something while in the process of going through divorce by my ex-in laws: that unlike their daughter, I would be married again in a year. A month later my therapist said to me, "you know that you are hard working, a good father, very healthy and have no real anger are going to be a real popular guy!"
I consider both to be real compliments by the most honest people I know.
So, here I am, not married again and not nearly as popular as I had hoped.....and I'm still an optimist. I believe it will happen.
I also believe that two are so much better than one could ever be....
You know how great it is to be with some one that knows you,
inside and out, and still thinks you are amazing.
I love the passion of a great romance....and will work to keep it going as we learn about each other and grow together.
I have time in my life for this now, and can make it work. And if it does, I will have your back-emotionally support you the end of time.

In my life are 2 great boys 9 and 11 that I share custody with their mother(and am on very good terms with) needless to say they are a prime part of my life.
I have many diverse interests....I love to cook, go to art museums, hike I'm very big on cycling (even have done some racing) kayak, almost anything. I look good dressed up as well as down, so you can take me anywhere. And I'm very social.
I lean toward the left when it comes to politics and stay informed. May not be the best choice for hard core right wingers. Nor those with anger issues. Life is too short to focus on negativity. I enjoy dating people of great diversity and do not go out with a checklist as if this is a job interview. We are all different and I really enjoy positive human interaction on all levels.
I can be fun, playful, but deep as well. And be ready for a wicked sense of humor!
What I’m doing with my life
I work in sales, and I'm successful and respected in my field. But it can mean long hours sometimes. I'm trying to control that as the most valuable thing we have is can not buy any more, so use what you have wisely.
I’m really good at
cooking anything, positive encouragement, honesty, building stuff, cycling, kayaking, being a father, being there for someone, massage, communicating, being fun on a date...Looking good in a suit or going casual.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, and that I do look a bit younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As I drive a distance for work I listen to books on CD. A few recent titles: House of Stone by Anthony Shadid, At the Devils Table by William Renple, Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert....movies-not too much in the mainstream, but I'm pretty open there. if there is a good story I'm in!
as for TV, well I love the Daily Show....Boardwalk Empire, Treme, I think "The Wire " was one of the best series ever put on the tube. And......... I admit- I do watch Family Guy-I have been a fan since the first season......and love the Simpsons Halloween episodes.
The six things I could never do without
My boys,
having a relationship with an intelligent adult,
Someone to have deep conversations with and throw stupid ideas out to,
books on CD to listen to while commuting,
cool ties and really well made shoes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have a friend who says he is a "bad Jew". I have another friend that says she is a bad Catholic. So I wonder what would a bad atheist be?
On a typical Friday night I am
May be an after work bike ride with friends, meeting you for dinner, massaging your feet after a rough day,
taking the boys out for name it...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Yoko almost left John for me.....But I stopped her....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you could looking for anything from a great date to anything beyond ....If you are warm, open, no issues with anger, no issues with hate, if you are not blaming the Mexicans for everything, if you prefer Bill Maher to Fox news, are creative, can understand my responsibilities with raising kids.
Or some part of the above, and like spending time with someone who is passionate, respectful and will not spend his Sundays watching football. Yes, I am different.
And one last note...if you are a "professional" and I have met two of you here recently, please do not contact me.....this is tough enough as it is!
As for the rest...yeah, I dare you....just do it.