Well, I never expected to be having to do this again, but here I am....a little about me-I have 2 boys 8 and 10 that I share custody with their mother(and am on very good terms with) needless to say they are a prime part of my life. But I do make time for myself and others and I have many diverse interests....I love to cook, go to art museums, hike I'm very big on cycling (even have done some racing) kayak, almost anything. I lean toward the left when it comes to politics and may not be the best choice for hard core right wingers. Nor those with anger issues. Life is too short to focus on negativity. I enjoy dating people of great diversity and do not go out with a checklist as if this is a job interview. We are all different and I really enjoy positive human interaction on all levels. I can be fun, playful, but deep as well. It all works...and I have a wicked sense of humor!

I work in sales, and I'm successful and respected in my field. But it can mean long hours sometimes. I'm trying to control that as the most valuable thing we have is time...you can not buy any more, so use what you have wisely.

cooking anything, positive encouragement, honesty, building stuff, cycling, kayaking, being a father, being there for someone, massage, communicating, being fun on a date...Looking good in a suit or going casual.

My blue eyes, and that I do look a bit younger than I am.

As I drive a distance for work I listen to books on CD. A few recent titles: House of Stone by Anthony Shadid, At the Devils Table by William Renple, Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert....movies-not too much in the mainstream, but I'm pretty open there. if there is a good story I'm in!
as for TV, well I love the Daily Show....Boardwalk Empire, Treme, I think "The Wire " was one of the best series ever put on the tube. And......... I admit- I do watch Family Guy-I have been a fan since the first season......and love the Simpsons Halloween episodes.

My boys, bicycles, having a relationship an intelligent adult to have deep conversations with, art, books on CD to listen to while commuting, cool ties and really well made shoes.

I have a friend who says he is a "bad Jew". I have another friend that says she is a bad Catholic. So I wonder what would a bad atheist be?

May be an after work bike ride with friends, meeting you for dinner, taking the boys out for dinner....you name it...

Yoko almost left John for me.....But I stopped her....

you could looking for anything from a great date to someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you are warm, open, no issues with anger, no issues with hate, if you are not blaming the Mexicans for everything, if you prefer Bill Maher to Fox news, are creative, can understand my responsibilities with raising kids.
Or some part of the above, and like spending time with someone who is passionate, respectful and will not spend his Sundays watching football. Yes, I am different.