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38 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t want kids

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My self-summary
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Normal, easy going and down to earth guy here just looking for new friends and connections. I have a varied interests that include biking, nice places to eat, wine, working out, movies, music and books and I'm looking for either friends or a deeper connection to share this and more with.

Things I like:
- Confidence
- Good manners and decorum
- Modesty
- Hygeine
- Common Sense and Intelligence
- Taking care of health and life ( this does not mean gym bunny but not mean Big Macs every night either)
- Guys who can be real and down to earth

Things I don't like
- Pretention
- Shitrless torsos in personal ads
- Smoking ( yes that includes pot)
- Guys with no ambition

I want us to get to know the inner each other and learn from our experiences. I'm not perfect but I have my shit mostly together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Work in high-tech as a marketing project manager. I usually maintain a pretty good work-life balance except for the occasional fire-drill. I've gotten back into putting more dedication in to working out and being more active.

I'm developing a pretty strong interest in the stock market and maybe spend too much time looking at how my tiny-seedling of a portfolio is doing and how it will grow big someday.

In terms of hobbies, i'm an aviation nut who probably probably drank too much jet fuel as a kid. I can often be found chasing a random plane or getting one just because. I have a pretty lofty goal of getting my Pilots License, maybe sometime before I turn 40.

I'm trying to get more into photography -- I've been told there are lot's of cool things to actually take pictures of out there. Maybe you can show me sometime?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting with people I (after the ice is broken, otherwise I'm quite shy), being a loyal and helpful friend (I'll almost certainly say yes to airport rides, pet sitting, etc ).

I love to throw parties, cook and entertain for my friends. I don't have the chance to do it very often.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depending on the situation, I can be quite engaging or very shy and quiet. I sometimes have to feel out the room before I start relaxing a bit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't watch huge amount of TV (I just can't stand the ads anymore) but I do like Modern Family, SVU, the Morning News, CNN, Documentaries. I enjoy independent movies, cheesy movies, comedies, and most main-stream cinema. I also enjoy most broadway shows (I try to go to NYC at least once per year for a quick "mini-me-weekend". I'd like to go to an opera and get more into symphonies.

I enjoy reading, though what I mostly read is legal fiction (John Grisham would probably be one of my favorite authors).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Occasional Spa Time
Being on an airplane
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my future will look like, my next career moves, making sure I'm sticking to my goals and budget. But I also think a lot about where I want to travel to next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visiting friends up in SF enjoying a nice dinner and maybe a drink or two, or relaxing at home catching up on the DVR.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wear socks to bed and won't go barefoot in the house.
You should message me if
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If you're looking for friends, maybe we have a common interest in something or maybe something here actually grabbed your attention.