I'm a social creature, and tending bar is a good outlet for that when I'm not out with friends. That said, I'm also just as likely to pack a bag and just get out of town on my own. There's always been a constant pull between big city and deep wilderness for me, and since I can't (afford to) live in two places as once, I'm settling on weekend camping trips as often as I can.
As tough and leather-jacket clad as I (think I) seem, I'm actually a super sensitive sucky-suck. But I wear it well, so I suppose it's only problematic when I'm crushing on straight girls.