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jvmonji

23 / M / Straight / Single

Honolulu, Hawaii

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am originally from Connecticut, but I spent a lot of time in Long Island growing up. I recently moved to Oahu after finishing college in San Diego.
What I’m doing with my life
I was a launch boat captain back in Long Island, and I am looking to upgrade my captains license here in Honolulu. I studied International Relations at USD, so I would love to do some international consulting for a business that does most of its work in Asia or Latin America. I'm trying to work as a Captain for the time being while I look for the right avenue to use my diploma. At the moment my knowledge of the ocean and vessels is the best way for me to make money. Not to mention I enjoy being on the water.

Currently working as a surf instructor in waikiki. I feel more like a chairlift or a tugboat because I chase people around Pops and tow them out to the break and back out after every wave. I'd like to think that I am Ambassador of Stoke, and have the privilege of getting paid to get other people stoked. And maybe, just maybe, get myself a little stoked.
I’m really good at
Living the dream.
The first things people usually notice about me
Many notice my beard since it is located on my chin. But I guess my friendly demeanor? I feel like that is a lame thing to say, but I like to think that I am a warm person that treats everyone the same. But to tell the truth probably my voice. Raised on the east coast with family from Long Island and New Jersey, I had to speak up to get heard. Things get loud with the fam, happens. It's also a deep voice that carries. I struggle at whispering.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food:
Mexican, Latin, italian, FAT CAT PIZZA in CT (where glory is found), sushi, grandma's cookies/breakfast sandwiches, aunt's fudge, and my older sister's apple crisp.

TV:
Game of Thrones. There are no other shows.

Movies:
Se7en, Usual Suspects (Kevin Spacey kills it), Trollhunter, LOTR, Harry Potter, Drive, Die Hard II, Braveheart, Snatch, Sunshine, Inception, Django Unchained, High Fidelity, Dear Suburbia, Fern Gully, Up, Finding Nemo, The Brave Little Toaster, The Adventurers Down Under.

Books:
On The Road, Angels and Demons, All the Pretty Horses, The Road, Plum Island, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, Zeitoun, The Hunger Games (you like um too, cmon), and Harry Potter.

Music:
Asap Rocky, Elliot Smith, The Weeknd, Notorious B.I.G., Danny Brown, M83, The XX, The Beatles, Big K.R.I.T., Deltron/Del the Funky Homosapien, Gorrilaz, Rick Ross, Silversun Pickups, Snoop Dogg, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Toro y Moi, Jon Brion, and Kanye West.

I could go on and on with music but currently I'm exploring some deep house tracks. Trying to find new hip hop and older albums that I should have listened too. Been finding some more soulful jams that I've been digging too. Funk is so good. Blasted an earth wind and fire slow jam in my car yesterday with the windows down in traffic. FM radio was on it's game that day
The six things I could never do without
My family, my iphone, my dogs, my surfboard, my car, and my friends.

I could do without the board or iphone, but to be real, losing those would blow.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-travel
-surfing
-what kind of dog I want in my future life
-how to make and/or buy a foam pit... I also think about getting epic into a foam pit rather often
-the ending of shutter island/inception
-why i suck at talking to girls in "typical" social situations (bars, clubs and such)
-what kind of REAL career I want/will be able to get
-Can i put curtains in my minvan? Will they be expensive? Can I do it myself?
-How can i make acai bowls at home? Will that be expensive?
-Can I put a hammock in my room?
On a typical Friday night I am
Ready to go out around town and share a few drinks with my friends and any other good company I can find. I am more of a bar person than a club person, but I can be convinced to go to a club on the special occasion. On friday nights, I look for a cold brew, good company, and a place that is chill that supplies me with both of those.

Thats not always the case though!! This past friday I surfed all afternoon. Came home and started re-watching Game of Thrones and playing the drinking game with my two friends. I made it through one episode before fading and falling asleep. My two friends proceded to stack things on top of me and document their towers. I woke to multiple boxes and other things falling on my face. I got up, got another beer, and proceeded to watch more game of thrones. Tyrion, you're ma boy!! and khaleesi all i gotta say is those dragons better be fully grown and kicking ass come season 3, just saying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have really long "pointer toes" (just google it and it's called second toe or long toe) and believe me mine are long. The one my left foot is longer than my big toe and rather bulbous at the end. It is stubbed often and has brought my entire body down to the ground while I was running barefoot. Meaning that a singular long weird toe was able to trip me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you're not afraid to get epic on the reg