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53 Elmhurst, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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I am a hopeful romantic and I believe in opening doors and holding chairs for woman. Chivalry is really not dead. It is common to see that statement here but to me chivalry means defending and respecting weaknesses, never lying or going back on my word, and to always be generous to everyone.

I have two amazing children, 15 and 17, that are an integral part of my daily life.

I love all types of food and trying new things. I enjoy traveling just as much as I enjoy cuddling on the couch. I am serious and successful at work; a martial artist; a musician; and occasionally a total goof. Renown for my sense of humor. I love animals, especially dogs. I admit when I'm wrong and I will never turn an argument into a personal attack. I am capable of learning from my mistakes, and man, have I made them. I believe in monogamous relationships and hope to find someone that can communicate and be completely honest with their thoughts and feelings.

I have been divorced a little over 3 years. This is a rebuilding process and honesty helps that process thrive. I have traveled the world a few times and look forward to seeing more of it. I work out but probably not as much as I should. I no longer feel the need to constantly be running around and I do enjoy the quiet times on the deck with a cocktail.

My partner enjoys quiet dinners and seeing live bands. She is comfortable in her own skin and enjoys a cocktail or two. She has a great smile and can easily accept unconditional love. She is emotionally and physically comfortable with herself. She knows that nothing is impossible if you truly have the support of a loved one. She is also capable of giving herself completely to her man. In return she will experience true happiness that can only be achieved by walking hand in hand with someone that would willingly give up everything to protect her.

I do not want to change as I am evolving into a man that I am truly impressed with. I do not want to change you either.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a Program Manager for a large construction program. I am also a musician and martial artist. I enjoy teaching Taekwondo as well as competing internationally. I have been in the same band with the same guys for almost 30 years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My speciality is delivering projects that have died in other people's hands. I can successfully complete difficult tasks that others have failed to complete...and I give great hugs.

I consider myself very romantic and enjoy holding hands, hugs and kisses and everything that comes with that. I have no problem with PDA because when I am with a loved one, no one else matters.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people notice about me is my smile. I am always smiling. After my smile it seems my eyes create the most comments. People claim I can see into their soul. I really just look people in the eye when I talk to them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love cooking gourmet and grilling. I also enjoy old black and white movies (if Cary Grant is mentioned in your profile, we will probably get along great) and the great outdoors. I create music; I do video editing; I am a photographer; I also help design high end audio production suites and studios.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children, my friends, music, romance, my job, my iStuff
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I should write in my profile to convince you woman to take a chance.... ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually at home relaxing after a stressful week. This is where you can help...GET ME OUT OF HERE
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am an open book. I have no problem admitting anything...maybe not here but feel free to ask. I have made mistakes and I learn from them. I'm not perfect but I am striving to be a better man everyday.
You should message me if
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You enjoy humor and conversation with someone that is very open and honest and someone that prefers that you honestly relax and be exactly who you are. I also am a huge fan of banter and teasing. It keeps my mind sharp and my body alive. I don't always swear but when I do it is poetic... I'm just a normal crazy guy looking to meet a normal crazy woman.