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39 F Blacksburg, VA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:33am
Asian, White, Other
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Malay (Okay), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Gong Xi Fa Cai .... 2013 Yin Water Snake! So its been a couple years since I started this OKC and this feels like a good time to freshen up the profile... Been quite a lot of transition for me but I feel much more settled and happy with who I am today. Almost done with grad school and will be looking forward to a break and then seeing what possibilities lie in store for me next... for now - still too busy but making more time for me amid kids friends family and general chaos!

My profile and questions are a bit stale - probably not too off the mark, but I'd say today I'm looking for someone to get to know well and see if there is potential for a relationship. Been enjoying hanging out, dating and sex and want that but if there is no greater possibility I'd rather pass. Course I know that with my availability and responsibilities it is a tough request - especially meshing with someone who has his own full life to lead - but I'm positive that when its right it will work.

Keeping my old stuff up just for reference ;)

2010 was a hell of a year for me - Iron Tiger if you follow Chinese Astrology which I mostly don't. At any rate 2011 is the Rabbit year which is my lucky stars and I am feeling it now that we are heading into a new Dragon cycle... anyway it's a bit crazy but when I do look back on my life there are these 12 year cycles that have been markers... So to give you an actual summary instead of this esoteric bs - I am a recently divorced mother of two studying Horticulture at VT.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Now - spending more time on my laptop than in the garden but looking forward to moving on and getting in the dirt after I complete this Spring or Summer. Taking more yoga and spin classes, more healthy meals and outings with friends and family, spending money wisely to save time and stress.

Past - I've moved away from a family based farm & brewery in Floyd to a little place in town where my kids and I call home while we all go to school. I got here by getting a job growing organic produce with and for Tech students out in the gardens and started teaching in the classroom last spring. This opened the door to my own return to school. So mostly my life revolves around my kids and vegetables.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Promoting growth. Overthinking. Eating seasonally. Jetsetting. Hot Yoga. (yes still am - also being a mom, friend and just myself)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fading - My farmer's tan
Brightening - My toothy smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Winter's Tale which I read a while ago Pillars of the Earth which I read recently. I watch a lot of shows and movies on Hulu or at the lyric but I am not so discriminating. Arrested Development is worth a rave. Music - again eclectic and varied. I'd like to listen to more live stuff more often and to play more than the three songs I know on the piano.

Food is a category all to itself - when you meet me you'll see it is basically all I am about.

unchanged - live update on request
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family & friends
Freedom to move & a home of my own
Flip-flops & knee high boots
Comfortable place to sleep & peace to comfortably sleep
Snacks & more Snacks
My car (well, I can do with out it but I really would rather live in my car than my house but it is a bit cramped for three) & airplane tickets whenever i can afford them
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to make for dinner
Past & Future but striving to be Present
Finding Balance
Sex and relationships

Sex and relationships
If prayer is meaningful without belief in God and what is Faith
Food systems
Cross Cultural Experience and International Development
where I want to be instead of where I am
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe out on a date - could be with my kids or a girls nite - sometimes in reading and writing.

Out of date - Probably on-line looking at your profile. I'd rather be at the jamboree or lyric or cellar or in another timezone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am much happier unmarried.
You should message me if
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you have something to say and you are interested in what i have to say from this profile