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30 M Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:52pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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Socially I would describe myself as very easy going, friendly, and often quick with a joke. Internally I am very committed to pursuing my own values and individuality. So I guess I can laugh at myself and others, but I also have a serious side which drives me.

In my free time, I am happiest at a tasty restaurant, an occasional wild night out with friends (30 is the new 25!), on a netflix or hbogo binge, or going to the movie theater.

I enjoy staying active (and competitive) with basketball, tennis, hiking, and classes at the gym.

Random note: I love dogs, especially bigger ones!
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved here in mid July to become a founding teacher at a new charter school in Oakland. It's important to me to have a job where I feel like I am helping contribute to positive change, but I come from a family of businessmen, so I am totally cool with it if you're a mercenary ;).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping perspective
Seeing all the angles (well, at least most of them)
Staying calm and composed
Making my friends laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm a little quirky (in a fun, harmless and amusing way).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love crime movies from gangster movies to thrillers, thoughtful dramas, and dumb comedies. Some of my all time favorites: Pulp Fiction, The Godfather, The Departed, The Fugitive, American Beauty, Good Will Hunting, American History X, Dumb & Dumber, Ace Ventura, Airplane.

Books: One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest, To Kill a Mocking Bird. Love the overarching themes in these books.

Music: My two main loves are classic rock and alternative 90s rock (i.e. nirvana, pearl jam, sublime, the red hot chili peppers, etc.). I am also into jazz and blues and a smattering of country and hip-hop. "I dig music." Instant date granted if you can name the movie. (unless you substantially outweigh me :P)

TV: Love the HBO stuff, among others. The Wire, Game of Thrones, South Park, the Daily Show, the Colbert Report, Seinfeld, Curb, the Sopranos, Dexter, Breaking Bad.

Food: Everything... I love ethnic cuisines especially Japanese, Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Italian, and Azerbaijani... Yeah, I've never actually had Azerbaijani.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become a better teacher
The Miami Dolphins (Yeah I know, it has been a rough decade.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It really varies. Sometimes I'll be out with friends having a good time, other times I will just want a nice quiet night at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit it, when in the car alone, occasionally I might sing quite loudly to songs which aren't considered very manly. Maybe you can guess a few ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you're willing to engage in ridiculous hypotheticals.