Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, finally updating this for the first time in a while. I like
to introduce myself by saying that I am a practicing Christian and
that I do my best to show love and compassion in what I do and to
everyone. I hate being judged, so I don't judge others regardless
of where they or I may be in my life. Even outside of my
Christianity, I believe one of the worst things you can do in life
is compare yourself to others. Instead, compare yourself to what
your goals are and where you want to be, and that will be a much
more inspiring and, more importantly, permanent motive.
I'm also a realist. I believe in being forthcoming, honest, and
direct with others. In the long run, it will help them and help
yourselves. It is what I want from others, also, even if it's not
necessarily what I want to hear. That being said, there is a real
difference between being judgmental and being concerned. If we are
to share ourselves with others, sometimes criticism can come off as
judgmental, which causes strife. So I try not to offer advice or
anything unless directly asked.
I really enjoy listening to people. Many people never get to tell
their story, so it's so interesting to hear what people have to
I do not have much of a family life and I am not very close with
them...so I try to make friends and people from my church close and
may consider them, after some time, family.
I am loyal, honest, and compassionate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I do sales and accounting for a local home improvement company.
While I do enjoy it, I am currently looking to expand upon my
career and considering what the next step would be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Some people say I'm good at cooking. I guess I can cook alright. I
have some good recipes.
I'm really good at listening and talking to people, and giving
feedback. I feel it is important to let the other person talk,
while I listen and keep an open mind.
I'm a good planner. I try to plan things and be thorough with them.
It is really hard for me to sit back and let someone else plan
something for me, ha ha.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess that it's that I don't play games, I'm honest, direct,
forward, and trustworthy. I don't see reasons to lie in general.
This is not to be confused with being open or telling too much
information. I won't tell you my autobiography on a first date (or
probably a second or a third), but if you say, "I want to go to X,"
and I don't want to go, I'll tell you.
Also, my laugh is very distinct. It's not hard to make me laugh
either. I can be a bit awkward sometimes, and I'm pretty
introverted. It is hard for me to express myself sometimes.
Keeping along those same lines, I have a dry sense of humor. I know
it doesn't show much in this profile, but it is there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food- This varies from day to day, to be honest. I get weird
Books- The Bible, since I am a Christian. But for non Christian
books, I like action and adventure usually.
Music- Praise and Worship, and a lot of different music. I'm picky
within genres, but there's something from almost every genre I
Movies- Not much of a movie person, but occassionally I like the
action movies, or a romantic comedy, or whatever the person I'm
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, food, people, shelter, independence, fun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot, and probably spend too much time doing it. I do
worry (trying to do that less) in general, so sometimes I way
overthink something I said or did. But, I spend a lot of time
thinking about my future, friends, and how to better myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Extremely varied. Every Friday night is different so you'll have to
get to know me in order for me to fill this out accurately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I guess I'll say while I'm not a private person per se, I have the
illusion that I am because I'm pretty quiet at first and don't go
in depth a lot. So...I guess that's a privacy related thing.
You should message me if
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You are at least close to my age, you like what you're reading or
seeing and like my profile, and want to get to know me. Also,
message me whereever you are. I like talking to people, even if
you're in another state or country.
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