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31 M San Francisco, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 7:56pm
Native American, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
My profile is a mishmash of several years of coffee sundays, teetering highs and chasm waxing-- it's kinda ridiculous. Feel free to message me if you have anything to add. An image, a light, a concept.

Let us go then, you and I,
When the evening is spread out against the sky
Like a patient etherised upon a table;
Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,
The muttering retreats
Of restless nights in one-night cheap hotels
And sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:
Streets that follow like a tedious argument
Of insidious intent
To lead you to an overwhelming question …
Oh, do not ask, “What is it?”
Let us go and make our visit.

In the room the women come and go
Talking of Michelangelo.


ANFP: Still water runs deep, but occasionally is not so still.
What I’m doing with my life
I see a lot of tesalate. We basically live together.

I teach in technology, but right now I'm retooling a bit. I have a relaxed schedule after having a grueling one for a couple of years. I'm excited to take advantage of this time for health and new possibilities.

I'm interested someday in continuuuing on in documentary, anthropology, and/or telling ghost stories in south america.

things are just fine.
it's a line excerpted from a poem reflective of a hot-baked cement day some time and some days after i lost a better friend to belladonna. but, i don't know.

there's a beautiful beach, just off the highway and just south of monterey, that is composed of half-golfball-sized stones. whoever planted the golden flag at pebble beach was so close yet so far, you know?)
I’m really good at
i'm a sensitive youngish man with some looks and a few moves. my attention runs down like water from big to small, generally as the day runs through. sublimated back up to the heavens, my distilled qualities then rain back down UPON THE WORLD.
The first things people usually notice about me
my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
En un beso, sabrás todo lo que he callado.

cuurently waiting for the next installment in the song of ice and fire. i read a fair amount, usually non-fiction, usually chosen in kind of a stream of consciousness. just finished the hunger games and am reading a book on the mortgage crisis of '08.

i read and write poetry, just for myself.


i love art films, studied and love documentaries.

currently watching new seasons of boardwalk empire, treme, and grey's anatomy :)


sing it: tren al surr...

been listening to bill callahan and the new chili peppers album lately.

"i'm good at being uncomfortable, so i can't stop changing all the time" -Fiona

i take singing classes, mostly for myself.

recent shows of note: crooked vultures, the bad plus, smashing pumpkins, nine inch nails farewell show, sharon jones, fiona apple,

tren al suuurr...

i worked in nice restaurants serving and bartending for some time, so i know a bit about food and beer. and a lot about wine.
i'm recently vegan.
The six things I could never do without
various love, touch
screens of light
fruits and veggies
conversational poetry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
suuuuhhhhhnnnnnnnnsssshhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiayyyyyyyayayayayihhhiiiiiiiiiiyiiyiiiyiiinnnnnnnnneeeeeegggghhhhh. (beat for inhale) sweeeeeeeeeet loooooove bahhhhyyyyyyyee the booaaarrrdddd.

old wooden ships, computers, service, pateando piedras, wine, the internet, buenos aires and paraguay, food, health, land, sex,

‘Derby Day, Henley Regatta, Cowes, the twelfth of August, a cup final, the dog races, the pin table, the dart board, Wensleydale cheese, boiled cabbage cut into sections, beetroot in vinegar, nineteenth-century Gothic churches and the music of Elgar’
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'm intoxicated with one on one interactions. they're almost all i do. i do think, however, that i need more group activity to contrast the intensity.

here's a wall i throw stuff on:
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if

i do look for new friends, so don't hesitate to message me for non-romantic purposes.

"Slapstick thinker with refined sensibilities seeks a saint-like sinner with insanely cool style for a long-distance joyride towards the outskirts of Nirvana. Established meditation practice and a good bedside manner are desirable. Would it be too much to ask that you might also have a high level of emotional intelligence without boring me to death with your maturity? Is it possible that you'll be an entertaining talker who also knows how to listen with your wild heart turned up all the way? Let's keep reinventing ourselves forever."

and you dance. nothing fancy. but maybe sometimes as if your movement sustains the dharma of the world.