Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My profile is a mishmash of several years of coffee sundays,
teetering highs and chasm waxing-- it's kinda ridiculous. Feel free
to message me if you have anything to add. An image, a light, a
I'm into more intentional, long term things these days, but I also
am headed to the mountains in April where all there will be is Real
Life from April-September, so yeah, I'm just enjoying what comes up
Let us go then, you and I,
When the evening is spread out against the sky
Like a patient etherised upon a table;
Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,
The muttering retreats
Of restless nights in one-night cheap hotels
And sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:
Streets that follow like a tedious argument
Of insidious intent
To lead you to an overwhelming question …
Oh, do not ask, “What is it?”
Let us go and make our visit.
In the room the women come and go
Talking of Michelangelo.
ANFP: Still water runs deep, but occasionally is not so still.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm on sabbatical from teaching at an art school. I pretty much
relax otherwise, despite some misanthropic tendency to be a hermit.
i think about the place i live a lot. i bike. i watch movies, i
think warmly about swimming in cold water. i think hot springs are
I'm interested someday in continuuuing on in documentary,
anthropology, and/or telling ghost stories in south america.
things are just fine.
it's a line excerpted from a poem reflective of a hot-baked cement
day some time and some days after i lost a better friend to
belladonna. but, i don't know.
there's a beautiful beach, just off the highway and just south of
monterey, that is composed of half-golfball-sized stones.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i'm a sensitive youngish man with some looks and a few moves. my
attention runs down like water from big to small, generally as the
day progresses. sublimated back up to the heavens, my distilled
qualities then rain back down UPON THE WORLD.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
En un beso, sabrás todo lo que he callado.
non fiction, articles on the internet, science fiction...
i read and write poetry, just for myself.
i love art films, studied and love documentaries.
album on power play for week of 9/28:
sing it: tren al surr...
bill callahan and the chili peppers
"i'm good at being uncomfortable, so i can't stop changing all the
i take singing classes, mostly for myself.
shows of note: crooked vultures, the bad plus, smashing pumpkins,
nine inch nails farewell show, sharon jones, fiona apple,
tren al suuurr...
i worked in nice restaurants serving and bartending for some time,
so i know a bit about food and beer. and a lot about wine.
i'm recently vegan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
various love, touch
screens of light
fruits and veggies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(beat for inhale) sweeeeeeeeeet loooooove bahhhhyyyyyyyee the
old wooden ships, computers, service, pateando piedras, wine, the
internet, buenos aires and paraguay, food, health, land, sex,
‘Derby Day, Henley Regatta, Cowes, the twelfth of August, a cup
final, the dog races, the pin table, the dart board, Wensleydale
cheese, boiled cabbage cut into sections, beetroot in vinegar,
nineteenth-century Gothic churches and the music of Elgar’
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm intoxicated with one on one interactions. they're almost all i
do. i do think, however, that i need more group activity to
contrast the intensity.
here's a wall i throw stuff on: cadence.tumblr.com
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
geography! (i'm mostly not into dating people across the bay from
i do look for new friends, so don't hesitate to message me for
"Slapstick thinker with refined sensibilities seeks a saint-like
sinner with insanely cool style for a long-distance joyride towards
the outskirts of Nirvana. Established meditation practice and a
good bedside manner are desirable. Would it be too much to ask that
you might also have a high level of emotional intelligence without
boring me to death with your maturity? Is it possible that you'll
be an entertaining talker who also knows how to listen with your
wild heart turned up all the way? Let's keep reinventing ourselves
and you dance. nothing fancy. but maybe sometimes as if your
movement sustains the dharma of the world.
and i don't really care if you're sick. when has a cold ever
prevented you from doing anything important? we are made from
stars. if you should take care of yourself, then, ok, don't message
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