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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 12:41pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Heyo, well here we are.

The basics: i am an introverted extrovert that trends active, adventurous and always on the go. I love the life I have and I am looking for someone to enjoy it with. Is that you?

I work in international development and am blessed to get to travel all over the world. It's a great career, and I would love to find someone to share the crazy with.

I like to stay busy most of the time. I am fairly athletic - part time runner, mediocre crossfitter. I try to do some sort of physical activity most days.

That's me. Now for you.

I am looking for someone that likes to have fun, can make me smile, and can keep me entertained! I am looking for someone dependable and loyal, yet spontaneous and willing to buck routines. Someone who is intellectually curious, has a thirst for adventure and can cook a mean steak. Conventional yet unconventional. All the better if you want to cook with me and drink an adult beverage.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to save the world, one politically challenged country at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being busy. and eating. any ideas on how to curb the two?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have some sass. Not too little, not too much: just right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: A Prayer for Owen Meany, Catch-22, The Alchemist, The Power of One...and i prefer paper over kindle. i have been trying to get through Anna Karenina on the iPad for about 2 years and i am about to give up on Tolstoy...

Movies: Anything by John Hughes, anything with John Cusack

Shows: whatever is in my netflix or hulu queue

On constant musical rotation: the cure, depeche mode, morrissey, the smiths, radiohead, muse, silversun pickups, delerium, interpol, the xx, two door cinema club, churches, gaslight anthem, NIN...I have a soft spot for gothy/industrial, 80s pop, and indie rock. working in a record store for years can do that to a person....

Food: Anything, especially if it involves bacon or BBQ...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, my passport, my friends, my active lifestyle, music, coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what i should/could be doing vs what i am doing.

working from home has led me to start plotting too many home improvement projects...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
decompressing at home from a hectic week or hanging out with friends or trying to turn in relatively early to get ready for the next days' early morning run or WOD. operative word is try.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
--occasionally I eat almond butter straight out of the jar. ok ok, more than just occasionally.
You should message me if
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--you think we have mutual interests and we fit what each other is looking for.
--you are interested in being more than just pen pals. i am looking for something that will eventually develop into something real and substantial. You should be too. Even if we are on a slow boat there...
--you believe in buying the full-length album/record, not just a single.