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37 F Arlington, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

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Today – 9:43am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Heyo, well here we are.

The basics: fun, out going, and adventurous. I love the life I have and I am looking for someone to enjoy it with. Is that you?

I work in international development and am blessed to get to travel all over the world. It's a great career, but it would be great to find someone to help me fill the rest of my day with equally cool and fun things.

I lean politically left. Social justice, equality and respect for difference is important to me.

I like to stay busy most of the time. I am fairly athletic and try to do some sort of physical activity several times each week. Recently signed up for a half marathon, so I suppose I should start running too. Tried rock climbing for the first time -- holy fun! I also know when to slow it down and chill -- which is most of the time, let's be honest.

That's me. Now for you.

I am looking for someone that likes to have fun, can make me smile, and can keep me entertained! I am looking for someone dependable and loyal, yet spontaneous and willing to buck routines. Conventional yet unconventional. All the better if you want to cook with me and drink an adult beverage.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to save the world, one politically challenged country at a time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being busy. and eating. any ideas on how to curb the two?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have some sass. Not too little, not too much: just right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Prayer for Owen Meany, Catch-22, The Alchemist, The Power of One...and i prefer paper over kindle. i have been trying to get through Anna Karenina for about 2 years. i am about to give up on Tolstoy...

Movies: Anything by John Hughes, anything with John Cusack

Shows:Usually no time to watch TV, but I pay for cable nonetheless. Usually so I can watch palladia or some random home improvement show. I have a thing for streaming netflix. Considering shucking cable completely and getting Apple TV...

On constant musical rotation: the cure, depeche mode, morrissey, the smiths, radiohead, muse, silversun pickups, delerium, interpol, the xx, two door cinema club, churches, gaslight anthem, NIN...I have a soft spot for gothy/industrial, 80s pop, and indie rock. working in a record store for years can do that to a person....lName your top three albums you would take to a deserted island to listen to forever: and go!

Food: Anything, especially if it involves bacon or gluten please. unless it is fresh, homemade pasta. or my mom's pound cake.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, my passport, my friends, my active lifestyle, music, coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what i should/could be doing vs what i am doing.

working from home has led me to start plotting too many home improvement projects...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
decompressing at home from a hectic week or hanging out with friends or trying to turn in relatively early to get ready for the next days' early morning run or WOD. operative word is try.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
--occasionally I eat almond butter straight out of the jar. ok ok, more than just occasionally.
You should message me if
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--you think we have mutual interests and we fit what each other is looking for.
--you are interested in being more than just pen pals. i am looking for something that will eventually develop into something real and substantial. You should be too. Even if we are on a slow boat there...
--you live in the area. because let's be honest, DC traffic is terrible and is a major time suck. i would rather spend my time in a way that does not induce road rage.
--you believe in buying the full-length album/record, not just a single.
--furbeasts aren't a deal breaker. i have a rescue cat that loves to make new friends...