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35 Canberra, Australia Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 9
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Im a sapiosexual. I can also clap really loudly. Those two qualities are not necessarily interrelated.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
When I'm playing the role of sensible professional, I work in human rights. It's pretty important to me to use my career and invest a lot of my energy in work I find meaningful.

I think working in a difficult area keeps me pretty grounded and puts things in perspective. I'm not prone to being a drama queen! :-)

I'm also a very social creature - spend a lot of time with good friends. I like keeping busy - I don't lead much of a sedentary lifestyle, unless I've socialised too hard and it becomes necessary!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Forgetting names. Taking forever to fill in these homework-style essay things. Baking crap cakes. Cooking a selection of savoury things well. Bruising myself. Outlasting almost anyone in a social situation. Making people laugh. Dancing to techno. Drinking coffee. Remembering to pack the right things when I go away. Remembering dates like birthdays etc and phone numbers. Taking the piss out of myself. And others. Swearing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've successfully eradicated the mullet I had in year 5.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music is much more important to me than movies or TV shows - I watch very little. Love a wide range of music - I'm heavily into electronic music and most of my musical taste errs on the side of being contemporary.

Maybe one example of each is a decent starting point:

Book: The Jesus Man - Christos Tsiolkas
Movie: Boys don't cry
TV show: Breaking Bad
Food: Mexican? And good quality pizza...!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Thought provoking questions such as this that make me ponder whether it's even worth answering.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why isn't there a way to freeze time? Seriously. Or pause it - just for a while, sometimes. Maybe I need to spend more time at tedious social events or in protracted meetings... Time seems to go slower then. Wicked sadist, time is...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working late, driving interstate for the w/end, spending time with the child I am partially responsible for, heading out, socialising with friends, occasionally having a quiet one. But not all at once. I couldn't fit that in my car.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My eyebrows are naturally green...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interesting, intelligent and fun... Or you aim to be, or think you are... Open minded is excellent - I really struggle with bigots. And not in a kooky wrestle kind of way - more in a 'would prefer to have limited association with' kind of way. It'd be kinda cool if you weren't too conservative - politically or socially... You might find me more appealing that way. Or contact me if you want to hit a dance floor with me.

Also only message if you want to - no pressure. I'd hate someone to feel compelled - that'd likely make an awkward interaction...