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30 New London, CT Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 1:50pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(Edit 7/03/15 - Yes I am a cancer patient going through chemotherapy for hodgkin's lymphoma, was diagnosed back in march on my birthday, as such I'm looking for someone that'll be understanding and take the time to actually get to know me and doesn't mind staying in with a good movie on the days I'm not up for going out. A friend I can spend time with and share with while I battle this. My condition is curable and hope to win this by January, the end of my chemotherapy treatments)

I relocated to connecticut just a few summers ago, and work didn't really give me much opportunity to really figure this place out... until now. My hours have completely changed (for the better), and it's become humanly possible for me to meet other people at a reasonable hour, so I'm starting to make an effort in that direction. I've always been about experiencing more of life, going places, doing things.

A little more to know about me is I'm trying to enjoy life while working towards my own goals. I am a computer programmer and currently working as a technician and website designer while also working nights as a poker dealer. In my spare time I study hapkido and kendo. Test out new video games and even design a few for fun. I like to go out and meet new people, hit the movies or go up to devils hopyard and go hiking. I also draw in my spare time (posted a pic of one) and enjoy a good book.
Profession: Professional poker dealer with aspirations to be a game designer (working on college for programming associates degree)

I am spontaneous, sweet, reliable, and romantic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working and helping out my family while furthering my own long term goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art, poetry, goofing off when appropriate, dealing cards, cooking. I like to cook for my nieces when they visit.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, they change color from green to blue.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm, thats a tough one. Things come and go so setting things as needed doesn't fit much in life but rather what we cherish or want.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my future and my goals in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually working :p
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Since it was asked how a person can be both spontaneous and reliable without being a contradiction I thought my response to that question was a good addition to my profile.

It makes for a fun contradiction. Simply put, when it comes to friends and family I am very reliable. I never break promises and am always there for them. Now the spontaneous part of me likes to just up and go out, act goofy when the situation allows for it. But reliability comes first when it concerns things of importance.

Life calls for a mix of the two, if too much of one or the other you just end up either a bore or obnoxious. I learned this lesson the hard way but it made for a much better life when I did.
You should message me if
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I am terrible at icebreakers but if you're looking for a friend, a real relationship, someone to chat with or like my profile or my artwork, are interested in japanese culture, techie, geek, nerd, video gamer, artist, poet, anime fan, adventurer, enjoy books, or just want to ask me about anything I didn't think to put in here then feel free to message me :)