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kafka_on_shore

30 M Shanghai, China

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:59pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm temporarily visiting Shanghai for a vacation from Sept 2 to Sept 11. Not enough time for true love, but it'd be great to meet a new friend or two, see a local view of Shanghai and what makes it great, and have a company on occasion.

I value honest and kind hearted people. I'm doing what I can to learn more about the world, open myself to new perspectives, and help other people fall in love with their passions and people that matter.
What I’m doing with my life
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Giving the world access to information and empowering endangered languages. I work for Google Translate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Proposing outlandish and optimistic ideas
- Making up creative stories on the fly
- Making time for people I care about
- Cycling
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an ectomorph.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
1Q84, A Wild Sheep Chase, Cloud Atlas, Number9Dream, A Memoir of Vietnam and The Pentagon Papers, Dune, Martian Chronicles.

Movies:
Back to the Future, the latest Muppets movie, Paprika, Moulin Rouge, Studio Ghibli in general.

Music:
Ai Kuwarabra Trio Project, Explosions in the Sky, Above and Beyond Group Therapy, The Album Leaf, Azure Ray, Chvrches, Eastern Youth, Utada Hikaru, Phoenix, Say Anything, Small Sails

Tv:
The Daily Show, Glee!, How I Met Your Mother

Food:
Ichiran Ramen, Curry, breakfast foods, Chicken & Waffles, Watermelon, muffins.

Radio:
Planet Money, This American Life, 99% Invisible, Radio Lab, Savage Lovecast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Smiling Children
Friends that ask me to travel with them on short notice
My overweight cat
My stylish Cycling Jacket
Capitalizing all Nouns like a German
Role Models
A welcoming community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- What feelings do I want to inspire in others and how do I accomplish that?
- How do we improve the cities and communities we live in to be more inclusive and supportive?
- How do I be more like Morry Schwartz and Doc Brown?
- How do I teleport?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a teaching assistant for a Buddhist Youth group. We have awesome deep discussions and sometimes play silly games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an impossible person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you'd be interested in talking about:
- Optimal ways to travel
- Optimal ways to make a city rock
- How to engage underserved communities
- What inspirations you want to gift to people.